Win or Lose?

I have a habit of drinking a cup of milk b4 bed time every day, today as the 2 of us are facing our lappies, i suddenly ask hubs whether he wanna drink his soya bean milk..below are the extracts of our conversation...do not read on if you cannot stand lovely dovely things...

Me: 老公公，要喝豆奶吗？
Hubs (eyes didnt leave his lappie): 要！
Me: 要，自己去倒咯。。。
Hubs: 我的老婆婆不爱我了，我在赶report，她叫我自己去倒豆奶。。
Me: 我的老公公也不爱我了，要我去倒豆奶给他喝。。

In the end, i got up and went to pour 2 cups, milk for myself, soya bean for him..whahah i lost... basically, we will repeat this conversation every nitez and its always I go pour de, cuz he will be always focusing on his lappie...

That's the Lees' for you..our own way of live...Will post more of this kind of conversation when i remember...hahah..stay tuned...

Forgive & Forget

Was reading an old fwen's blog and she mentioned about having problems with her hubby's famly i.e PIL..While, it kinda reminds me of my on situation but abit different is, the pro does not lie with my PIL but some 1 else..



It has been nearly a yr since the incident happen but in my heart I knew, no where near the future will I be able to forget this issue..This is nt about me being petty, this is about me hating unreasonable plp and the most important thing, messing up my wedding plans....



No doubts, everything went smoothly in the end, i had a beautiful wedding, happy honeymoon and best of all, a wonderful husband but time and again, i will be reminded that how things was so mess up in the 1st place that i nearly didnt want to go ahead with the wedding plans..



It was with the encouragement from my family members, my dear sisters, my colleagues and of cuz my hubs that I manage to pull thru all these and get on with the wedding preparation which was 9months ahead of plans..9 months ahead, dunno whether any 1 have any idea how rush the things got when we scrambled to take our wedding shoots, re-calculate the wedding date, re- coordinate with my fwens who all went to take leave for the new wedding date, re-calculate our budget as we brought it forward 9 months, re-informing plp of my new wedding date and gotta repeat the story to every 1 else who asked why the date was 9months earlier, re-deciding my honeymoon destination as Hubs is not able to take long leave during start of yr and of cuz money issues...



I was tired out by juz sorting out the details and get the preparations moving, money issues were solved and hubs n i decided to go for smthing simple and of cuz honeymoon is changed to Korea and with the promise that I will go on my Europe trip once he finish his degree next yr. The biggest disappointment is the date...I originally have a date that I was so happie tat is suited us but in the end, gotta juz take the limited dates i have so that i would not clash with them.



How I got thru the meeting with them without punching the daylights out of her when she tok without any sensitivity is still a mystery till date not onli with me, but my sisters/fwens who noe the story. Everytime when I see her now reminds me of the incident as thought as it juz happens yest...I dread to face her on every occasion as I really cannot get over it, I mean, which bride will forgive any 1 who mess up their wedding plans? Its a once in a lifetime issue ya noe?



I am still consider a lucky person with hubs rallying behind me, he knew of my feelings and tried to make things easier for me by avoiding meeting them too but smtimes if it is unavoidable, then i will have to live with it, but the lucky thing is, we are living on our own and basically can avoid meeting them as much as possible..



Till this day, I am still puzzled how can some 1 as unreasonable as this person exist in this world since me n hubs oredi did wat we can to avoid this incident by practically asking them for permission to go ahead with the wedding in the 1st place and onli to get the bomb at the last min...Morale of the story, when plp wants to be unreasonable, it's useless to tok reasons with them....

March Babies Zoo Trip 2009

The last time I step in the Singapore Zoological gardens was in 2007 when part time bf got hold of free tickets to go to the zoo..heheh..tt was like 2 yrs bak le lo...heheh 2 yrs later, part time again got free tickets for us to visit zoo again...heheh

We meet at 10.45am but got held up abit cuz dear dear was struck in a jam..As usual, we went to watch the elephant show at 11.30am...it was part time's fav and aso mine..although the show is always the same but then they neber fail to make me luff at the part about the elephant refusing to wake up frm its nap...

Hubs and Me with the beloved late Ah Meng

We then went to walk ard with part time and JM leading us the way...Dear was super excited at every enclosure can...I tink if its allowed, she will bring the tigers, lions, puma, the different species of primates hm as pets lo...whahhaha...beri cute, her expressions....after all these yrs still the same..
Lele with Kangeee

Zoo pretty much remains the same....but then it was great to see the gals despite every 1's busy schedule..a pity partner didnt come along...and ya..forgot to take photos with the guys this time..mayb 2 yrs later ba..hahah hopefully this visit will continue on....

March Babies Zoo trip 2009

Over and done

yipppeeeee..My 1st ACCA paper is finally over...whahaha...so gald its over...i've gt like 3 wks of holidays b4 the next sch term..come july, i will take 2 modules..dunno can cope or nt...but 1 module like abit slack like..if i take 1 module each sem, dunno need to studee till when le...

Man, the burden is finally gone..my 1st business paper...nt as bad as i imagine and as the lecturer had make it out to be..or is it my imagination??dunno, i find the paper manageable leh.. typical ans is "Can pass, but cannot Score"whahahah...heck care, as long as can pass, i celebrate le...

Nw tt i have time on my hand, i'm gonna go bak to my jewellery making..been buying too much beads/findings but nt doin anything...hahahha..i wan make new earrings/bracelets/rings/necklaces heheh...

Wahhhhhh......holidays r here...*dance arounds*

While waiting for Hubs today...

Although I was sick yest and slept half a day away, I manage to drag my ass up tiz morning to acc mum's godma-Popo to AH for her physiotherapy session...Actually I wanted to bak out and ask mummy to go de, but decide against it as mummy gotta work today..i was super tired ar, and slept in the waiting area 4 a while b4 takin out my books to studee...

After sending popo hm, i went down to Chinatown..tt day i saw a lady wearin a nice pearl bracelet and wanna make a similar 1 4 myself...afraid that i might 4get the design, i need to go down quickly to get the required pearls since i onli stock up on the beads but nt the pearls...

Hubs 1st called and say he can book out by 12.30 and told me to wait 4 him to take lunch together but as i was reaching chinatown, he say change to 2pm...faint...i need wait till at least 3pm b4 he can reach le...

Since I have so many hrs to spare b4 meetin him, so i decided to walk ard chinatown and aso help my dad to search for foot reflexology posters for him to paste n his shop..but after walkin ard 3 shopping centres-Chinatown point, People's park centre and Pearl's centre, I gave up..

I walked passed DMK and saw a pair of shoes that I like and decide to try my luck and asked whether they have bigger size or not...I have tried askin twice b4 this and both time, they told me the largest size is 38 while my size is 40..i tink today is my lucky day lo, the sales auntie told me their largest size is 41..which means there is hope for me should the shoe cutting is small, at least can get the biggest size...heheh

But then after checking, the sales auntie told me tat both 40 & 41 are sold out..I was so shocked can, didnt expect there will be gals with feet as big as mine..whahah...smmore 2 colours both sold out...with 2 pairs each...which means there are mayb 4 gals with feet as big or bigger den mine.. The sales auntie told me to try 39 as the cuttin of the shoes are of bigger cut and thus i decided to try...The shoe is surprising quite fittin although is 39 lo, but nevertheless, i got the sales auntie to help me expand the shoes and she went an extra step to help me apply wax ard the sides to make them more comfortable to wear...In the end, I was a happie customer...on top of tat, i have found 1 more shop to shop in given my big sized foot....the onli shops i patronize are Charles n Keith(Seldom now as their shoes are quite uncomfortable and will always give me blisters, now i change to buy their bags le), URS-their designs may take quite a while to change but usually their shoes are quite lasting and comfortable..D&C a brand which can onli be found in Chinatown, IMM and Far East I tink,smtimes their shoes design is abit off but smtimes if u r lucky, can get quite nice design...but their shoes are nt tt lastin as compared to URS..but prices are of cuz lower too...So DMK is now in my list le...aiming to get the VIP card...heheh

My new shoes-erm...okie, my phototaking skills didnt do justice to its beauty...haha

After shoppin, I went to Coffee Bean to grab a cup of ice blended mocha and my Fav--double chocolate chip muffin...although it is a no no given my current situation but i realli cannot resist the temptation...heheh sat there for a while b4 procceding to OG for the aircon to get away frm the heat...

My fav frm Coffeebean-Ice blended Mocha and Double chocolate chip muffin!!!

I walked ard OG for quite a while, goin round n round, touching everyting along the way...I was bored to tears le, n Hubs is still struck in the camp..I spent quite a long time in the household dept..tinking whether to buy the bedsheets on offer...its quite reasonable, the price..59bucks for 280 threads,100% cotton, a complete set with quilt cover..but then i haf more than enuff bedsheets le lo..My MIL gave me like 5 sets, and i aso brought 1 new set during my weddin..so i decide nt to spend the money..maybe buy towards yr end for CNY use..whahah..

Next i went to the kids dept and aso spend a long time there playin with the toys...whahah tink plp might think i'm siao le..but i juz wanna check out on the new toys ma...In the end, i brought a Care bear to hang on my new Longchamp bag, which seems kinda of plain to me..heheh as there were alot of colours to choose frm, i took my time to try out every colour...hahaha I also wanna buy the big 1 leh but my rm no space le, n hubs say cannot put in his bao bei..*bleah*

My new care bear on my new bag...hahah

Hubs finally came at 3.30pm..but then i was already slply,hungry and grouchy frm the heat..it's been a long long day for me....

lele is sick

I'm sick sick sick....been having runnin nose for the past 2 wks...but then still okie..juz tat i can feel smthing big is comin up...today, while in office, suddenly i keep feelin my throatin is burnin n painful...in a span of 2hs, i have already drank 3 bottles of ice water hopin the sore throat will go away..cuz everytime when i develop a sore throat, it will lead to a full blown flu, fever, headache, bodyache,running nose will complete the whole flu package...at this time when the mention of flu will set off the alarm bells for H1N1, i realli did nt wan to get it..

Plus as we haven finish the reporting for May, thus i dun wan to go on MC...but i'm still waiting for my FM to finish her inputs b4 i can move on with the reports...But yest, my accountant has finished her overdue reports and so, i decided to finish updating it 1st b4 decidin whether to go hm or nt...it took me the whole mornin to finish updating the report...but by the, my head is throbbin and threatenin to explode any time le...

My FM notice that my face is quite pale aso and adivse me to go see the doc after lunch...I tink its onli fair that i go see a doc le, if the virus is passed to other colleagues, its not fair for them..so after i'm done with the overdue reports, i went downstairs to the company doc..but need to wait till 2pm b4 its open and since i'm in no state to stand there for half an hrs, i decided to come hm here n see my usual doc...

The clinic nurses will takin precaution when they heard that i'm hafin sore throat n fever..all of them were wearin mask..and i muz say, the doc is super fast in her diagnosis lo..every patient goes in for onli 5 min den come out le...she said tat my throat is infected le and started me on a course of antibiotics and a few other med...

I told a nap after that med and juz woke up for dinner..hubs will nt be comin hm tonitez due to his night trainin...haiz...gotta slp alone tonitez...i hate it and especially when i'm sick...gonna take a shower and goin to turn in le...

My medicine...

My new hobby

I'm nt sure how many of my fwens noe, but i totally love doing DIY beads jewelleries and have quite a collection of them. But since i'm always juggling btw sch and work, in recent yrs, i have slow down on the creation.mayb once in a while den i dabble with it.

Recently, there is this new craze of blinging ur accessories with the stick on crytals...i've been tempting to try them but always cannot find smthing suitable to try without worryin about spoilin it...i actually wanna bling my new camera de but is afraid of spoilin it with the super glue..plus if nt properly done, it will be beri ugly...and also if i bling, hubs will nt be able to use it as it is too loud for his usage le..so i dropped the idea...

My Limited crytals..Gonna add to the collection real soon...

1 day while we were out, as i was wearin my sunglasses,it suddenly strike me that i can bling my sunglass!!!since it is nt an expensive 1...i juz brought it for my korea trip as plp told me that the snow can be quite glaring...but then i didnt realli use it there...since goggles were provided during skiing, and other than that, the snow will nt thick enuff to cause discomfort to my eyes...hehe...

okie, back to my idea of blingin my sunglass...i read in a blog that the crystals sold at Arab street is quite cheap and got hubs to bring me there...eh..i'm nt sure it is cheap leh, i tink its cheaper at the shop in chinatown that i usually patronised...but anyway i brought 2 pacs frm the uncle since i'm there le...gt abit discount smmore, but jas told me that the uncle always give discount automatically de..hhahha

My tools- Epoxy glue & tweezers

Den i went to buy epoxy glue frm DIY shop and brought 1 that onli sets in 90min so i'll have ample time to shift ard the crytals to get them in the rite positions..for a starters, i juz did the sides of my glasses and is waiting for them to set it...but then have to keep adjusting the crystals frm time to time as they keep shifting out of position...i juz found that cannot apply too much glue..it will be come too slippery for the crystals to stay on...

1 side of my sunglasses...

I aso try to stick some onto the hair clips..hehe but then since i have limited beads, i'm juz tryin out 1st..wait till i'm confident enuff den i will start blinging my own accessories..tink need to wait till my exams are over b4 i can spend time on this le...hehehhe

My clips

Currently Reading

The 1 book I've been reading recently is the pocket notes of F1..The paper which I am suppose to take next wed...Although the lecturer has mentioned that it is nt enough to juz read the pocket notes, but the actual notes are too heavy to bring along to work..thus I make do with wat i have ba, since i dun spend as much time on travellin as compared as b4...

My F1 pocket notes....

But this book will be become history after next wednesday...so the search of a new book as begun...I always have this habit of readin b4 bed time or during travel times to keep myself occupied..it seems that time moves faster this way and i will not find the journey long if i read on my way...

Yest, as i was readng TNP, i came across an article featuring a local writer and her book - The Mile HI! Club...In this book, the author who is an ex air stewardess gives an insight on the job of a steward/stewardess.

So today, after dinner with mummy, she suggest to go Popular to walk ard and I decide to go check out whether they carry this title or not, if nt, den i will haf to go to kino and buy le...hehe lucky, they still carry this title under local write and hence i brought a copy...couldnt wait to start readin to see wat juicy stories tat the stewardess had write about..

hehe till then, den i will do an entry on the book...i go read it le...

My new book