Marriage is not only a union of 2 person deeply in love, its a beginning of a long long learning process...
Sunday, 26 December 2010
Xmas gifts Part 2
Felt beri love, i mean whu wouldnt? He is some1 who dun spend this kind of money on himself..even for his new yr clothes, its juz 3 polo t-shirts n 2 bermudas..he didnt even get new jeans as he says he is nt wearing them often and the 2 he brought this yr are still new..nowadays he prefer to wear bemudas becuz of the hot weather.. neither did he buy new shoes, bags or watsoever..
Yet,he is willing to fork out money for me to buy the Kate spade bag which he tinks is over price juz becuz of the brand and without any questions ask..whahha..i was abit guilty la, cuz he dun even spend tis kind of money for himself and yet he is willing to spend on me juz becuz i like tat bag..
So in the end, i decided to forgo the bag...since i haf no shortage of bags and its juz another 1 of my "likes" instead of "needs"...muz learn to be a more thrifty person le..wgahhaha cannot keep spending at this rate...but seriously, i would need a new vacuum cleaner n a iron...I was actually gonna get it myself as Mr Love keeps saying tat they are still in good working conditions and he sees no point in replacing them..
But the vacuum cleaner, is like over 10yrs le lo...i brought over frm Mummy hse when we shifted to our hse cuz we are nt using as frequently as mummy and she brought a newer model..and i think recently it starts to smell when we were using it..so was thinkin of replacing it..
As for the iron, its kinda of peeling on the surface which i dunno y..and i am worried that it might transferred to the clothes when i am ironin and thus spoilling them..So i tink its high time tat i replace the iron instead of waiting for it to spoil 1 of my dresses..hehehe
So i told hubs tat i rather him to pay for that 2 items which i am tink its more neccesary than my Kate Spade bag...heheh He seems quite impressed with me and yesh, tonitez we are gonna shop for these 2 items..i will leave the ironin till i get my new iron...whahahah
How I spent my Boxing day
But alas, i lost to him in today's boxing match..By boxing match i mean that the struggle to get out of bed on wkends..its the same old story every wkend...we will try to kick each other out of the bed 1st to go wash up while the other 1 gets to slp/roll/lie snuggle for another 5-10 mins depending on how fast the person is..whhaaha
I lost to him totally today...no matter how i box him with my bloster, pull n twist his ears, trying hard to push him out of the bed, pulling his smelly pillow,blanket, anything that he used to cover himself away, he juz would not budge..in the end, i gave up, cuz i am out of breath le...so i self declare tat i've lost and got up to wash up 1st..
After breakfast, its spring cleaning time!!!Ermmm, think i brought too much clothes le..whahah n my wardrobe is threatening to give way any time, its time to throw out the old clothes n make way for the new 1..HOHOHO..
Plus, on the list today is to wipe clean all the super dusty shelves..been putting of for a few wks due to exams n i realli cannot stand the dust any more..put off any longer, i tink my skin allergies are coming bak...So it took me 2 hrs juz to wipe of the dust on each n every shelf in my room...and another 15min to change my bed sheet, finally its to vacuum and mop the floor...my back are breaking now and i still have 1 more task to do..that is to iron our weekly supply of clothes...wwahhhhhhhh i sound like an ah sum...whahahha....
Its gonna be a beri tiring day for me and i look forward to go bak to my knitting once i am done with all the hse work..plus Mr Love is gonna buy back the last polar bear for me frm LJS..hehehe... Happy Boxing day every 1..
Friday, 24 December 2010
I'm dreaming of a white Christmas...
We sat in front of the tv, eating the roasted peanuts brought in NTUC, drinking iced jolly shandy...whahaha it was pure bliss, to spend ur xmas eve with your love 1 doing nothing in ur own hse..
It would be more perfect is it's snowing outside and we are sitting beside a fire place watching tv along with the snacks, but this is SG, i noe, whaahha, so its juz day dreaming on my part kk..
Nevertheless, i wish to experience a white xmas once in my lifetime..heheh It would be so so romantic isnt it?
MEERY XMAS EVERY 1...
Wednesday, 22 December 2010
the season of giving and receiving...
I noe I should haf pick up his hint but my tots are all on my knitting..whahaha So in the end, he gave up, he told me straight tat becuz he wanna buy something for me, tat's y we are going shopping..whahah Tok about surprises, there is totally none...the reason tat he didnt go n pick 1 for me is he says he wans me to choose on my own...
He told me his budget, and brought me to the jewelleries shop for me to pick up something tat i like..Went to a few shops and finally decide that I like the designs in Soo Kee better...heheh I was tinking of getting a new pendant this yr as he brought me the rock for my bday earlier this yr...
And 1 caught my eye, it is a crown embedded inside a heart and it is a 3D design, which is different from the conventional 2D..2 of my favourite designs in 1 pendant...i was looking for a snowflake at 1st but there was none...heheh..
Mr Love den point out that the other design of 2 hearts interlocking is aso nt bad..I tried it on, its nice but abit pricely as there are more diamonds on the pendants as compared to my choosen 1...we went ard the shop and i saw tis ring with 2 stars joining together and ask the SA to let me try it on, turns out tat the size is juz rite..its pretty difficult to get the correct ring size for me in the shops as my fingers are bigger than most gals, most of the time, we have to wait for them to alter to my size..whahahh
So, its decision time,I am consider a fast shopper, i dun like to try 1001 design n den decide..i would juz try wat caught my eye and design between the few choosen 1..its down to these 3, n Mr Love told me that i could get a pendant n a ring, no need to choose juz 1...hehehe...So i needa make a choice betweeen the 2 pendants...
He actually prefer the interlocking hearts but the auntie in me acts up and i find it more pricey and in the end, I choose the crown within the heart..heheh its the tots that counts and i dun need to buy the more expensive 1..and on top of it, i like the crown in the heart pendant juz as much..Mr Love says it symbolises that I am a princess in his heart:)))))
Total damage to his wallet is half of his budgeted amount to me..whahah he says i am a easily contented woman, maybe, i am, but seriously I am realli contented and happie tat he did rememeber our special occassion and took the effort to get me something although his initial surprise plan falls apart...whahhah..
Merry Xmas n happie 2 yrs weddin anniversary to u lao gong...Love u *muackssss*
My princess in his heart pendant
New ring for the new year...
Tuesday, 21 December 2010
Knitting updates-1
it was my plan initially to do 2 scarf - blue n pink for both of us to wear during the trip but i guess time is not on my side and i gotta shelf this plan till the next trip..nevertheless i will give it my best shot to try knit 2 of this within these few wks...
A lighter note on this whole knitting business, when i finished knitting the 1st roll, i did not noe how to continue to the 2nd roll..heheh so i went bak to the shop to seek help from the instructors..you noe wat? it turns out that there is no magic, all u have to do is to tie a knot bwt the 2 ends of the 2 rolls..=_=''
the trip there onli lasted 5min...n it took me 1n half hrs for travelling to n fro...well done lele well done....
Sunday, 19 December 2010
出的了厅堂,入的了厨房。。
I would definitely love to be able to wipe up a decent meal for Mr Love n me..by decent meal, i mean with veg, meats n soup..So,i've searching for simple receipes online to let this noob to start her virigin cooking..heheh
But the thing is, Mr Love does not like Chinese cuisine..or rather he prefers western 1 and he "ordered"chicken chop..whahah..so its chicken chop that i will cook but nt the conventional kind..its abit of east meets west...whahah
I 1st season the chicken meats in abalone sauce that i got off shelf in NTUC..hehehe also brought brown gravy so that could heat up n pour over the chickie meat...i aso try to re create the pork chop meats that mummy use to cook for us season in light soy sauce n pepper..but i tink need eat some corn floor but i forgot bout it till when i started cooking..too late..whahah the meat turns out to be okie wif juz the seasonin..so didnt add in the sauce..
i aso fried some fries n brought chilli power to sprinkle on the fries..that is Mr Love's favourite i must say..spend quite a few hrs in the kitchen to prepare and cook..its all pretty easy 1 might say, but it sure isnt easy for me as i dun usually cook...
As i mentioned earlier in 1 of my posts, i will work slowly towards the goal of cookin up a proper meal..heehe it, takes time..next wkend, will try the chinese cuisine le..hopefully will turn out well...
Its kinda of surprisin how marriage can change 1 person is it? whahahha
Wednesday, 15 December 2010
Sore loser
The guy rebuked that they shdnt have grant him the extra credits to gamble and he would not chalked up such an amount and thus he thinks he shdnt repay..i was like WTF??u mean you think u can gamble and lost and expect not to repay cuz its the casino fault of granting you the extra credit? I mean wat is you win and the casino would not give you the prize on the pretext that they shdnt have granted u extra credits for you to gamble and thus allowing you to win more of their money??this is not logical rite?
Dun misunderstand, i am not supporting gambling but it juz irks me to see plp behave this way. Get a life man, if you wan gamble, you should be prepared to face the consequences.Dont be a sore loser and start repaying your debts to avoid further embrassement.
I think this is only the start of the bigger problem that is gonna hit our society..Gambling will shows a persons' worst side and true enuff in this case, it highlighted his..This guy is perhaps lucky as it was reported that he comes from a wealthy background. Think of those who comes from a not so well do backgorund, how on earth are they gonna repay this 300,000?
Government shd perhaps look into banning all citizens from our casinos..juz like South Korea..but then again, quite a big portion of the earnings comes from locals..I suppose there is no perfect solution to everyting is there?
Sunday, 12 December 2010
Its knitting time!!!
Wednesday, 24 November 2010
The agony of waiting & the irony of well wishes...
Told tis conditions to Cindy and she advised me to go to the doc as it is quite rare for me to feel the bad cramps along with feeling weak and giddy...
Thus to the doc, i went...doc told me there is 2 possibilities, either is hormones imbalance or i am experiencing miscarriage without knowing it myself...in any case, she ran a test on me to make sure i am not preggies..
although test results were negative, but she told me there might be a chance tat cuz miscarriage is happenin and thus the results were negative..her advice is, to go for a scan after my period has cleared to be double sure that i am not carrying any babies...if the scan clear the doubts, then this time, the unusual conditions i am experiencing nw are due to hormones imbalance le..
Down in my heart, i sincerely do hope that these are due to my hormones imbalance..not due to miscarriage as it is the saddest news on earth to know tat you are preggies through the news of miscarriage...though i took the prescribed painkillers, but the pains came bak on n off, which is abit worrying for me..the agony of waiting,to go for the test, is killing me slowly..
On the other hand, i posted some thing on FB, to vent abit of my worries, but the ironic thing is, some of them couldnt see the negativity in my message and keep asking whether i am preggies.. tok bout adding salt on my wound...i noe is no1's fault and they are juz concerned bout me...but then to link everything bak to being preggies especially on this issue is juz wrong! i mean if i were to be preggies, my status update will nt be so negative rite...
well, like wat cindy told me today..its nobody's fault in this issue and dun dwell on in..i realli muz thank her for calling and cheering me up knowing that this scary cat is scaring herself to death at hm.. i will be strong and hope that my prayers and your prayers are heard no matter is to which god...
Monday, 22 November 2010
My best fwen's wedding
Saturday, 13 November 2010
Lack of posts...
anyway, will be out of sight for quite a while from now till early dec as i am gonna studee 4 my exams...tat being said, i will still maybe continue to write the unfinish posting juz at a slower pace..
well, wish me good luck every 1!!i realli need it..gonna tie a white head band ard my fore head and back to my books...
Saturday, 6 November 2010
Family trip to sentosa
Took the bus to Harbour front centre, bro say there is this bus tt goes directly to RWS but then we didnt wait for it, cuz too impatient le..heheh..its been like donkey yrs since we last went to Sentosa as a family..it sure changed alot...
1 thing didnt change is mummy..she totally refuse to go to any attractions tt requires entrance fees lo..faintz..the onli thing she offered is to treat us to bike ride 4 an hr..like when we were young, she will rent bikes for us there...think it used to be 5bucks..whahah when we went to check out the price yest, it is 12bucks per hr...u shd see her face..priceless lo the face..60 bucks for an hr 4 the 5 of us..n since she offered to rent 4 us, we refuse to fork out any $$ on our own..whahah end up, she ask us to walk, say its the same =_='..
All of us started our long walk...Mummy said she wanted to go the beach to take a look, it used to have those water vehicles where we can rent for a 15min ride or so 4 3 bucks..but nw its all phase out le..On our way there, she keep naggin at Liang Liang cuz he is the onli 1 whu wore jeans there, which she says will trap sand while we walked along the beach..super naggy this mum.
Mr Love n me...
See how Liang Liang fold up his jeans..whahah
There is seriously nothing to see le, except for a few small grps of plp playing beach volley ball, the beach is basically empty, n we couldnt play beach volleyball with mummy n she is abit cranky over the weather ..in the end we juz walked ard b4 finding our way out of the beach and move on the other attractions..
On a floating beach tat links the island to a small breakwater...
Try out Bollywood style on some random tree
Wanted Bro to buy me ice cream but its nt open for business yet..
With Liang Liang, its been a long time since we 2 took a photo..
We went to Imbiah lookout next to look ard..Wanted to go Underwater World but mummy disagree again..whaha so we juz stood outside n look at the pond and then move on..Then it is next to Fort Siloso, images of Singapore...but again we juz walked ard in the shops and took abut of photos here n there..its juz like a walking trip ard Sentosa..Mummy can be beri stubborn smtimes..Even though i offered to pay for the tix, she aso dun wan, giving the reason that we've been to all these b4..but tings will change 1 wat, to attract tourists..
The bro in lawss
While we were walking ard there, Jie met 1 of his sec sch classmate..tok about conicidence... We continue walking to the Merlion Statue where again we camwhore abit there..It was there where we realise there is a photo taking booth mostly for tourists to take photos infront of the Merlion for sakekeeping purposes..
Its been a long time since we last took a family protrait together, by saying family protrait, i onli mean the 3 of us plus mum, it has been a norm tat dad was nt included in the photo as he neber went any where with us..this time rnd, however, we had a new memeber, Mr Love..hehe We took 3 different designs n then procceed to choose 2 to buy where 1 is placed is Mummy's hse while the other 1 in my hse..every 1 looks gd infron of the camera, i must say :)
Mr and Mrs Lee
Family protrait..
In front some Lake of Wealth of smthing like tat
We then went n walk ard outside Universal Studios n aso Candylious..Mum was beri excited insidethe store but brought nothing as usual...whahah..After that all of us were hungry le, n went out to Vivo City for lunch...
I love the candies xmas tree
Mummy's fav photo of the trip...
Mum says she wan to take a photo infront of the casino...
Bro treat me to Awfully Chocolate ice cream...hehehe
And then its home sweet home..man, its been a fruitful day...
Friday, 5 November 2010
Excited...
So its Sentosa we are going..along with my elder bro, younger bro,Mr Love n mummy..we are making a trip to Sentosa tmr..is an impromtu decision, the last time that we went out together is nearly 10yrs ago..
As we grow older, we seldom have family trips anymore..sometimes we do haf dinner together, but a trip is realli rare thus i realli look forward to tmr..
think mummy is aso beri excited for she had prepared alot of things to bring along.whahah and told me to be at cck by 8am..faintzzzz...earlier than my work time..whahah
kk gonna slp le n njoy tmr..nitez peeps...
Thursday, 4 November 2010
Taipei 2010 Day 4- Part 1-Typhoon making landfall
Interesting caption outside an umbrella shop |
Luckily, I managed to find the shop to buy a cheap cute looking plastic bag to throw in my stuff for our return. I have also received a message from the airlines stating that our flight will be delayed by 6hrs to 2am.
We then went to the hotel's business center to send email to our company informing them that we need to apply for an extra day of leave due to the delayed flight.
Wet and gloomy Taipei |
The mascot needs help to stay upright |
The buses here had all stopped running due to the typhoon and will only resume once the weather is good enough. Its pretty scary though that even transport ceased operation in times of typhoon, if every thing didn't return to normal by this evening, we are gonna be stuck here without a room.
A very quiet Ximending |
Cosy starbucks |
Black forest cake & hot coffee |
Busy with his hp |
Mr Love was toying with his phone while I continue to read my book. Thank god for my bad habit of bringing a book everywhere I go, at least I had something to do while waiting.
After 4 hrs of waiting |
Reading material for 4hrs |
Windows all taped up |
Got bored and start snapping pics of me |
The wind had somehow subside and few shops are opened and there is finally some crowd in XMD at 5pm.
Strong wind still |
My dinner |
Mr Love's dinner |
Fish ball soup |
Big ass fish ball |
Shop interior |
Ordering counter |
Random dog we saw in front of a shop |
Tired out by the attention |
Tuesday, 2 November 2010
Joke of the week
Tat being said, mummy n this uncle have seen each other for at lease 45 yrs..but u noe what he told her after the other classmates told him who she is?
"你小时候那么美,现在这么会变成这样???”
Mummy was beri upset after hearing this lo..given tt the uncle is balding smmore..whahah...
Dear classmates, especially the males..if u ever meet me on the street n tell me this, i make sure i will bite u...whahahhaha
Monday, 1 November 2010
Of lanterns and babies...
Whahah the purpose of the whole conversation is abit pointless..whahah but i know where she is getting to...hehe so i told her that my mil did tat during our wedding...but u noe why i was not preggie?heheh...cuz i didnt try for 1 lo...so no matter how many latterns u hang in the hse, there will be no babies unless i start trying..wahahah
she got the drift n i told her need not go buy latterns for this coming CNY le..whahahah
Better luck next time, Mummy..
Saturday, 30 October 2010
原来你也知道。。
Actually,when i came bak frm Taipei the other time, i tried to find it in the duty free shop but then i didnt noe the difference btw the different perfume and thus couldnt find the rite 1..on top of it, i was dead tired to try all, in the end, i juz came out...hehehe
it is till the other day when Cindy educated me on the different names, den i noe they haf quite a range of perfume...so off i went to Sasa to check it out..i found the correct 1 but still couldnt make up my mind to buy as i still haf a whole bottle of Chole on my shelf tt Val gave me as a weddin pressie...
2days later, i pass by beauty language at YTP and then went in again, this time as the shop was pretty empty, the SA have all the time in the world to serve me and answer all my stupid questions on perfumes..u see, i dun haf the habit of using perfume till recently as i did nt wan to waste the bottle Val gave me..heheh...
She explained patiently to me on the difference btw EDT & EDP..heheh and in the end i brought 2 lo..Incanto charm and DKNY delicious which is a EDP..heheh..
Okie, the thing is, yest i decided to use the DKNY prefume, which is the stronger 1 among the 2..hehe and while on the way hm in the life, hubs ask me izzit i changed my perfume..i was taken aback kk..whaha for 1,i didnt expect him to realise lo..whahah
To be frank, i was quite happie, happie tt he took notice of such small details for i didnt even noe he noes i am wearing perfume lo..wahahah..man, now i noe, hubs is secretly taking notice of me without me knowing..heheh uh oh.......
Incanto Charms- My fav at the moment...
DKNY---Recommended by the SA..
Chole-Gift frm Val...
From Body shop-dear dear gave it to me on xmas some yrs ago...
porcupine mode activated...
Yes, tt is why i refuse to divulge anything relating to the whole episode and also some other things tt i had presumed..i mean i use to trust this certain person alot, treating this person as a fwen in fact, confiding in this person the most hurtful things in my life yet since dunno when i started to lost trust in this person...
and you noe the saddest thing? is i couldnt tok to this person without guarding against this person, cuz i dun wanna get hurt, i dun wanna get betrayed...its maybe becuz i tink too much, i presumed too much but i believe its better to be safe den to be sorry...
i totally hate this kind of feeling when i lost the trust i have in a person for i will not be able confide in this fwen anymore and i will be putting on a mask and nt feel so comfortable with the person anymore..perhaps its juz a phase of life tt every 1 will haf to go thru, mournin the lost of a trusted fwen..but this, is the 1 of the mosted hate phase i ever wanted to face...
In the process of mourning the lost of this fwenship, i went thru a turbulence,in the process of self healing, i thought of things alot,although painful, but i manage to overcome it n emerge as nothing has happen..this took quite a while but i have since got over this loss..
Well, shits do happen isnt it?no 1 is suppose to be blame for the whole thing n i hope to haf peace soon...
Thursday, 28 October 2010
Its been 113....Months...
Fast forward to a few yrs later, minus the romantic feeling, minus the photo taking, smtimes even minus the sparks, heheh we still will wish each other la, but tat is if we remember..whahah if like for instance, i rem it 1st today n wish him happie 113rd mth anni..heheh n he lost!!whahaha
So we r treating it as a game..whahah see who rem it 1st..anyway, as it is pay day, so we went for a meal today cum anni celebration..whahah an excuse to eat, my colleague to say me..whahah..
Well, be it excuse or celebration, i felt blessed juz being with hubs..*muacks* luv ya hubs...
My ramen..Quite nice...
Hubs' set meal...
Our side dish..