Marriage is not only a union of 2 person deeply in love, its a beginning of a long long learning process...
Monday, 24 January 2011
1st impressions
Fast forward to 2 mths later, whahah while she was telling her kid bout me, they couldnt realli recall who is Auntie Sharon, till she reminded them that they met me on the bus before...
Know what her daughter answered her "oh,is tat auntie who threaten to tell all ur colleagues u scold scold scold ar?"
whahha i become the "scold scold scold" auntie but then nt i scold leh...whahahh
Man, i onli met them once onli lo, yet they remember me in this manner..hai..muz find some way to change their impressions of me..whhaahah
Saturday, 22 January 2011
Kluang 22.01.2011
Finally, since it is near to CNY, i manage to ask him squeeze out sometime to go bak with me so tat i am able to buy a few of my fav cookies and to pay Hwa Hwa a visit since we will nt be availble to go bak during CNY due to our overseas trip and aso the hse visiting committments in SG for his family side relatives..
Liang Liang says he aso wanna tag along, so Mr Love drove us there...I decided to take a new route today as I realise there is a short cut to the expressway the last time we returned to SG from there instead of the way we usually take...but then, as I am not quite sure how to go frm the new route, in the end, Mr Love missed the entrance to the expressway n we took a super long route bak..Okie, I swear the next time I will give the right directions..heheh...
Took a break at the usual coffeeshop in Simpang Rengam, a small town beside Kluang, n took our breakie..whahah I simply adore their chickie wings lo..neber fail to visit them if we were driving bak....
Its another half an hr later den we reached hm..took 3hr today which is beri long as the usual is 2hrs onli..whahah..Drank a cup of Er Yi's coffee which instantly perks me up and den rest 4 a while b4 going to eat Mr Love and Mine fav curry mee..whahah again, we neber failed to go there whenever we go bak..though all my aunties and uncles find that their standards dropped..
I 4got to take a photo of the noodles as i was busy savouring the delicious mee..heheh and Mr Love n me would eat 3bowls bwt the 2 of us everytime..whahah...
Then, we went to the book store where I chatted with her for hrs..its been a long time since we chat and if i am free i would smtimes call bak n chat with her onli..Of all the aunties, i am closest to her..
Then, we went to do some shopping at the biggest mall in Kluang..Kluang mall..whahaha found some realli cheap shirts and brought 2 for Liang Liang for CNY while hubs buy some working shirts there where it is going for 70ringgit for 2 onli..n they look pretty decent lo...
Brought abit of groceries bak to the bookstore for my aunt for her to munch while she stays there whole day..its a normal routine for me to top up the snacks whenever i go bak..
N, i got liang liang to teach me how to use my polariod camera after the diastrous effort to use it during our wedding anniversary trip to the flyer..Val gave me a crash course after tat but i haven got the chance to try it out...hehehe we gave my aunt a copy of our shot..my aunt always keep a updated copy of our photos de..heheh n we took an extra copy for ourselves where Mr Love keeps in his wallet..
We then went hm at 5.30pm to eat Er Yi's jia xiang cai..whahah she is the onli 1 who inherits ah ma's cooking skills lo..then proceed to take some photos for my 3rd uncle and cousin with my bro who they have not seen for quite a while...
Started our trip bak to SG at 6.30 n manage to clear the customs at 8.30..its was consider pretty fast as given it is a sat and we were expecting a massive jam as it is dinner time..luck is on our side it seems..whahah..till the next time when i have the time to go bak..
Wednesday, 12 January 2011
我想哭可是哭不出来。。。
I guess its 1 of my emotional phase acting up again..JV told me to let my fustrations all out by crying..she can feel tat the emotions are all bottled inside me..True enuff..as i was relating to her, i can feel my tears welling up, but i forced it back..i couldnt juz cry in front of her for nothing, i scare it will freak her out..whahaha
Yesh, i have tot of crying it out, but i juz couldnt get the tears flowing...i tink i need some time to calm down my emotions, to settle the problems..Like JV said, I went thru worse things before and survive, these should be peanuts to me, it shouldnt bring me down so easily..
加油!乐乐!!
Sunday, 9 January 2011
I have a confession to make
After 2 days of consideration, i decided to buy, against the nagging tots in my head that the films will be expensive..
Mum nearly flipped when she heard of this purchase..whahah but today,she told me she wanna use n take a photo of her n Yong Jun..Tok so much, still wan use my camera =_="
I wanna bring to Shanghai, so that can take pics with hubs against the beri 诗情画意 Su Zhuo and Hang Zhuo..whahah although we have our digital camera with us, but still the polaroid films have a different feeling to it..kekekke...
Well,what cannot be done has already been done..I will try to control my usage of the films whahah but i seriously doubt so...at least for the 1st few time...hehehehe
My camera n the films ;)
Till death do us part..
Recently, I came to learn of at least 2 extra marital affairs happening around me..In both cases, the married partner is the female insteasd of male..reallli, wat is the world coming to?previously when an extra martial affair occurs, we will assume the husband to be the 1 committing the adultery..
It kinda came to a shock to me lo...maybe is becuz the women in question seems not to be the kind tat will betray their spouses but we can neber judge a book by the cover can we?
I aso dunno what went wrong in their marriage that push them to start another affair outside and aso in no position to judge them...
But deep down inside, i realli could nt accept these kind of relationship..much as i dun wan to judge them, much as i wan to see them as a normal person, i couldnt..No matter the person is male or female, they still betray their spouses, broke their vows they took during their wedding..
Perhaps, their spouses aso did the same thing to them, but 2 wrong doesnt make 1 rite rite?The fact that they are still married makes the whole thing seems immoral..
As I watched the whole episode developed further, i shudder to think about what kind of values plp have nowadays...Perhaps, gone were the days where plp take their vows seriously, perhaps, marriage now are as fragile, or perhaps "Till death do us part" doesnt exist any more..
Still, I would wish that my own marriage will be a lasting 1, for it is the most sacred vow that I've taken in my life and I wish for it to be true :)
Wednesday, 5 January 2011
李式笑话- 爱的表现。。
Many many yrs bak, there is this tv commerical i forgot is for which product but the tag line is aso the same..whahah n Mr Love, has a great memory...he always without fail use the tagline to answer me whenever i ask this question...
Me: “老公,你爱我吗?”
Mr Love: “爱。”
Me: “有多爱?”
Mr Love: “很爱,很爱咯”
Me: “你要怎样证明你很爱很爱我?”
Mr Love: “等下请你吃虾咯”。。。
Does this sounds familar to anyone?whahaha
Sunday, 2 January 2011
Goodbye 2010,welcome 2011
Switched to Accounts job in 2009 and in 2010, i joined the present co as AP staff..its the 1st time i am doin AP as previously i am doin AR..it is a new experience for me and i am grateful for the things i learnt during this yr..had great colleagues here but the environment is not bad..
Dept Xams dinner:)
2010 is the yr of many 1st with Mr Love...
Its the 1st time he gave me REAL flowers as a gift..believe or nt..throughout our dating yrs, he neber give flowers to me except for the 1st yr where he self made 1 bouquet for me..whahah the onli other time is during our ROM where we NEED flowers for the bride to hold..whahah
this yr during V-DAY which is aso 1st day of CNY, he secretly orders a small bouquet for me..i was beri touched as i tot since we got married he would be more relax in the celebrations but instead he changed for the better and start paying more attention to the special dates...:)
2010 is aso the yr when i received my 1st rock..whahah Mr Love is suppose to buy when he proposed to me..but there was no proposal at all..wahahah n on top of it, he couldnt afford to buy it when we got married else there will be no wedding bands le..whahah..so for my 26th bday, he finally saved enuff to buy 1 for me..it was nt a big 1 but still i was beri touched that he rememebered his promise to buy 1 for me when he have the $$..
Its also the 1st yr we went to a theme park together..The Universal Studios Singapore..ohhh maybe its not 1st theme park..whahah cuz we went to the theme parks in HK back in 2008..whahah...okie, but its the 1st time in SG...took a day off on a monday and went there..it was small but still we njoyed ourselves..its like a mini getaway without goin overseas...
After many yrs of "Tok onli,no action" we finally decide to go to Taipei for a short trip!!I had always wanted to go there but since Mr Love had been there twice, we keep putting the idea off, but this yr, i finally got down to do the research and went there for a 4days 3 nite stay..I like Taipei, in fact more than HK...the shoppin is great, the food are even greater!!whaha and on top of it, we spoke the same language, Mandarin and Hokkien (Tai-yu)...but the downside is, we met with the 1st typhoon tat hits taiwan while we were there and it scares the shit out of us...
We are struck in cafe there while shops are closed and our flight is delayed..Mr Love fell sick and we basically have a lousy last day there..nebertheless, i am sure i will go back there in near future...
2010 is aso the yr that i experienced the pain of lossing a love 1...Mr Love's granny died the week after we came bak frm Taipei while on her way to her celebrations..It was painful even to tok about it in the initial days but we had come to terms in dealin with her death..I am sure she will wan us to live on well instead of dwelling on her death and wat we could have done...
Moving on, Mr Love went on a field trip with my family in Nov in Sentosa...its the 1st time after so many yrs that my family last went on an outing, we had an tired but enjoyable day and it certainly strengthen the bond within us..Lookin forward to more of such outings in future :)
Its also in this yr, I started to learn knitting in the hope of knitting some ting for him..Squeezed out sometime to go pick up the skills and is still struggling to finish my 1st product..whahah and hopefully, he can feel my love when he puts it on:)
I have also reached the age where my fwens are all starting to getting hitched..attended quite a few this yr but the most exciting 1 will be my bestie's weddin where i am 1 of the jie meis...whahah its the 1st time i tried being a jie mei for ppl's wedding...whahha i dunno i am still eligible or nt as i am a married woman..whahah but still heck care...had fun at her weddin n realli feel happie for her :)
I went to visit an Oil rig the 1st time...but it is non operation la..it is juz dockin in our waters b movin to the final destination but still, it is quite an eye opener nt to mentioned a scary experience for me..whahah but i survived and vow neber to go bak again..whahahha
Welcom to the Platinum...
Overall,it has been a pretty good yr for me and I hope 2011 will be even better..best wishes for every 1 in the upcoming yr..cheers!!!!