the other meaning of 体贴

Recently i found out that my hubs has an other side of him that i dunno lo..his black humour is something i cannot fight can...

We were watchin tv together and there was a scene on the leading man was very 体贴 to the leading lady and I asked him whether he will be as 体贴 to me as him or nt...

Almost immediately he came up to me while i was lying face down on the bed and he lied on top of me!!!

His ans? " 我拿我的身体贴着你，够体贴了吗？"

I nearly died with him stayin there for a good 5 min till i admit he is veri 体贴...

My very "High class" Mummy

Mummy and I decided to go to Bangkok over the weekend for a quick getaway. She had actually wanted to go on this trip very long ago and is only waiting for either 1 of us to be free to go with her. Since Liang Liang had already went on Sept with Val, therefore only left me to go with her lo, since my elder bro has no interest in visiting BKK.

She had actually been to BKK de, but then is with a tour grp and therefore she didn’t get to visit MBK, or the weekend market, which makes her a laughing stock in front of Liang Liang and me as we told her if she hasn’t been to either of these places, she cannot say she has been to BKK. Bearing this in mind, she had always wanted to go back there to visit these 2 shopping paradise.
But going on a trip with her is not as easy kk? Although she dunno much about BKK but she knew about the hotel besides MBK-Pathumwan Princess Hotel and told me specifically that she wanna stay in that hotel. Also, she will only want to fly SQ and not other airlines.

With this in mind, I went to a tour agency to book the a free & easy tour to Bkk. Mummy being mummy, is worried about taking taxi from airport to town and therefore would want to have a tour agency to fall back on and for the transport to and forth airport.

Although the price we paid is enough to let us fly to Hong Kong for a 3D2N stay but I think mummy is willing to pay to have a more comfortable stay in BKK, me? This is the 1st time I spend so much on a free & easy tour. Usually, I will book a 3star hotel and fly budget airlines, but then for the sake of mummy, I would have to go along with her requirements.

Now, all the bookings are done and confirmed, we are flying off on 31st Oct and will be back on 2nd Nov.

老公与男朋友的分别

Yest, Jas n I arranged to meet on early sat morning to go somewhere and we asked our bf n hubs respectively whether they would be okie with the meeting time set at 8am.

Here's the ans that they both replied to us:

Jas's bf :"For you, of cuz darling"

My hubs: " If you treat me to mac's breakfast, I will wake up lo"

When plp say "结了婚就不一样了“this is wat they meant.

Hey,watever happens to the"For you, of cuz Bao bao" you used to say huh??
*ROARRRRRRR........*

And the best part is, when I confront him yest on his ans and told him about Jas's bf ans his ans was "当然啦，他是男朋友，我是老公吗。。"

Win liao lo...

My best Pal found her baker!!!

Years ago, I tink in 2007 i wrote an entry of my best pal-Fang's requirements for her bf aka baker..I 4got wat i wrote in tt entry but i remember it's quite a long list.

Fast fwd to 2 yrs later, yest hubs n I went with her n her soon to be baker to sign their banquet contract. Actually it was suppose to be only they 2, but then becuz her soon to be baker couldnt confirm his schedule, so she got me to be accompany her..but in the end every 1 can make it, so hubs n I juz went along and wait at the lobby..

As we were tokin yest, it suddenly dawn on me that we have known each other for 17 yrs..tinking bak, i didnt know how we manage to maintain the friendship with the both of us taking a very different path as we grow up..

It's a very happie thing to see ur good fwens settling down 1 by 1, especially when I'm aso happily married, I aso wish to see my surrounding fwens to settle down happily, in yrs to come, have our kids and can still bring them out when we meet. Tat, would be anothe phrase of life that we are taking...

Well, I look forward to the day when we will bring our kids out for gathering..whahah and also free tuition for my kids!!!whahhaah...CONGRATS GAL, on finding ur baker!! hope ur "bakery" will have alot of "juinor bakers" in yrs to come!!!

我是有value的

The other day while Hubs went to sch, I went to have dinner wif mummy as usual...After tat I took a bus from CCK interchange home..I seldom take from there de as I always drop at Yew Tee or hubs will fetch me..

Tat day, after I alight at my stop, a guy in his 20s approached me and asked whether he could be my fwen. I was quite shocked.1stly, which era does the guy come from?I tot this kind of pick up only happens when i was 18 or 19, he look like he is in his early 20s le as he is wearing formal clothes so I guess he is in the work force le..

I immediately shake my head and walked away, to be frank, I was abit scared as I'm alone at tat time and hubs is aso not at home to come down fetch me...He was abit persistent, and asked me again why cannot, in the end, I decide, the best way is to show him my wedding ring, man, shd take a photo of his face, those like 被打败了de face...whahah..I almost feel sorry for him.. Man, I was flattered kk, a married woman, still got plp pick up...hahah..He walked away after that and I went hm le..

I told hubs when he came home, and he kept luffin lo..dunno wat he meant..maybe he tink tt guy is blind..heheh..next day, i was tellin Jas n Angie about this..and the Jas gal rite,keep luffin n luffin at the guy and said that if this is his 1st time pickin up a gal in this manner, man, he will haf a phobia approaching other gals in future...whahah

Angie was more funnie, she told me to tell hubs tat I still haf value 1 kk, not depreciated after we got married..hahah so nowadays, if hubs said criticise me in any way, I will answer him "我是有value的 hor"HEHEHEH

Show Off

Nothing interesting to post since I haven finish writting my Kuantan trip entries, here's an entry to consolidate the couple wear that Hubs and me own..From our early dating yrs to recently added collection....hehhe

During our early dating yrs....

My bro brought this bak from BKK for usHoneymoon in HK after our ROM

I brought these 2 outfits from FOX for our honeymoon in Korea after our traditional wedding..

Our latest collection......

Le Prommier

Due to the influence from my 2 beloved colleagues-Jas & Sal, I went to check out the shoes tat they had aggressively promoted..Sal owns like at least 10 pairs lo..if i dunno better, I would tink she have a super VIP card with the shop lo..

Jas, on the other hand, is a more "controlled" buyer, she onli brought mayb 4 pairs?heheh...It took me months before I set my mind and asked hubs to bring me there to check out the shoes..

Dun go still okie, once when I set into the shop, I couldnt control myself and brought 2 pairs lo!! 1 pair of heels and another pair of flats...heheh I actually wanted to buy the mouse design onli but then since it doesnt comes in heels, i choose another pair which have heels de..but then i still she bu de dun buy the mousey flats so i brought 2 pairs at 1 shot...heheh since i'm nt the 1 picking up the tab, so nvm lo..whahah plp agreeable lehz...

well,Jas told me that I'm hooked onto the shoes le..realli lo, all the design looks so desirable!!realli wanna go buy again but then again the prices are quite steep for my standard...hmmm guess gotta wait for another occassion when someone is willing to pick up the tab again den I will get a new pair..hehehe

Meanwhile, let me show off my new shoes

The chocolate and pearls series, this is the heels

My fav pair of shoes-Mousey design...cute rite? heheh

A VeRi CuTe BabY

In a blink of eyes, my tenant's baby turns 1 this year, the past 1 yr with him in our hse has made our lives more lively..He's cute, smart, naughty..super friendly and of cuz quite close to me..he will give me a hug or kiss when i reach hm..

Here's some photos I took of him 1 fine sat morning when he is enjoying his snack.. Super funnie and dirty, and of the shots i took for him, he will even smiling into my camera as he noes I'm taking his pic...

Happily Eating away

Smiling into the camera
After cleaning up

whEN hUBs gets toO StREss...

This is wat he will do to my carebear...

看来你要等我了

Have you ever notice that most drivers of those sports car – Mazda 8, the Nissan sports car, Mercedes SLK, BMW are all uncles who are at least in their late 40s if not older?

I’ve been complaining to hubs tat whenever I see a sports car, I tend to take a 2nd look at the driver hoping to catch a glimpse of a shuai ge (juz like in moives) behind the wheels but then so far no such luck leh..and I am seriously wondering if only old uncles drive these cars cuz only they can afford to..

Perhaps I haven seen much ba, but then I am still looking hahah.

Yest on our way home after my class, I saw a sports car again and again took a 2nd glimpse at the driver and then I turn to hubs and tell him disgustingly that it was a uncles who looks like in his 50s is behind the wheels, the worse thing is he is balding! To tink I took a 2nd look at him!!!Aggrrr!! All my fantasy of seeing a shuai ge behind the wheels of a sports car are all gone!!!

Know what is his answer to me?
看来你要等我买了。。。
My hubby is so humourous….

Blogger iS not working properly!!!

I am damn frustrated with Blogger lo...cannot upload pics for nearly 1 whole mth.. there seems to haf an error when i log in..but i see other bloggers successfully uploading the pics lehz...

so angry...till i can upload den i put up some pics...till then, bear with the wordly entries for the time being while i try to figure out how to get help...

appranently, there isnt any help mail i can sent it to and i aso dunno how to describe my situation..damn pek chek!!!!agggrrrr

Dentist visit

Hubs n I make an appointment wif the dentist last wk for a mornin slot today. Mine is at 9 am while his is half an hr later...haf trouble waking up though and i regretted booking such an early slot..damn..

We were running late for the appointment as we woke up 15 min prior to our appointment and we gotta wash up and also walked to the mrt statio where the clinic is located.

Surprisingly, there were 2 other patients waiting there when we reached but since we had an appointment, we could go in 1st.hehe..

The dentist was a very young guy who again surprisingly look not bad..at least is nt those old old aunites who will scold u tat you 4 nt doin a good job in maintainin ur teeth and for not visiting the dentist regularly..heheh

Anyway he was veri shocked when I told him it's been donkey yrs since I last visit a dentist..To be more accurate, I have not been to the dentist since sec 2 when my sec sch moved to its current premises and dont have the facility of a dentist.heheh heng ar..i dun like my sec sch dentist...

The dentist helped me to do polishin n scaling to remove the coffee stains on my teeth..I am a heavy coffee drinker, drinking at least 2 cups of coffee per day..hehe I oredi practice cleanin my teeth after drinkin my coffee but still have haf stains..but then dentist say better den didnt practice anything as the stains would have been worse..

He told me n hubs to each take a x-ray of our teeth to check whether we have wisdom tooth or any decaying teeth or not..I was in for the idea as there is a trent in my company for extracting wisdom tooth recently..scary lehz..i am beri scare lo, as they say cannot realli eat after the extraction..hehehe

Our x ray turns out to be fine, each of us haf 2 wisdom tooth on the upper gums and both seems to post no immediate problems to led to extraction..I was os happie to hear tt can...the dentist aso told me that most pro the teeth will nt grow le and would remain this way..whahahah so happie!!!

B4 ending my cleaning session, he told me to come bak after 6mths for routine cleaning but nt 6yrs..haha I told him if my company continues to give me incentive for dentist visit, i will continue to visit him since this time is also triggered by the incentive heheh...

Okie, this sums up my dentist trip, till 6mths later le..whahaha

Part time Bf

Its been quite some time since I last when out alone with my part time bf...Our last meeting is during the Zoo trip but then have no time to tok and gossip with her la...

So finally, I found the time to date her today..arrange to meet after work at Vivo..Its been damn long since we meet 1 to 1...

We always have alot of topics to tok about whenever we meet de..especially now tat I'm married, sometimes I will share my woes on you-know-who with her..nothing biggie but juz wanna bitch..She aso have her fair share of woes to share too, her family troubles, work and of cuz the soon to be new family..As we are at different stage of life now, I would share with her my experiences, and her, offering suppport for the problems I faced..

This part time is really treat me like her sis, even go overseas will buy bak souvenirs for me...She passed me yest things she brought bak frm HK last yr lo..its like so long le..she still keep for me..whahah so touched...

Dunno when we will get to meet again like tt but i noe tat this great part time of mine will be there for me whenever i need her and vice vesa..till then part time..u take care huh..

Couple time

Finally, Hubs exams came to an end last wkend, we were looking forward to a good wkend together this wkend.
But alas, it has to be disrupted by my flu,which knock me out for 4 days straight.

So this wkend, we are struck at home. He found a new way to clean his bao bei and spent nearly 6 hrs cleaning and polishing his bao bei. Unbelievable rite? whahah..

Been getting better and better at doing hse work..whahah..While hubs went to clean his bao bei, I put in the laundry,brought in the clothes,folded them and iron the work attires for 1 week..All these took me 2 hrs.

Went back to bed after all the housework.Whahah...still sick wat...

Went bak to PIL hse today, it's been 2wks since we last went bak as hubs is having his exams.

Nvm, I look forward to this long wkend, where we realli can spend some quality couple time together.

Discharged.

Went bak for my follow up check up in NUH. Hubs took the day off to go with me.
Phews....Doc say can discharge me le. Meaning to say, I need not go back for further follow up.

Just need to finish the prescribed med and monitor the situation myself.
I would only need to go back when I hit 40. To do a colonscopy again.

Thinking bak, it is really a bad scare but luckily, everything turns out well.
I'm lucky to have the support of my family,fwens and of cuz my hubs.

He neber fail to take leave to acc me to check up whenever I'm due to go back, with him ard me, I felt more peaceful.

Thanks for all your concern.I'm grateful.

Lover's phone

Back during our early dating years, we used to like to carry identical phones. Is either same model different colour, or same model, same colour. Just dunno why, it seems to be cool. Whahah. Just like lover’s shirt. But as hubs got more frequent in his quest to try using all the high end phones that are launched here, I gave up on the idea.

1stly, I dun haf the money to change phone at 1 wk frequency, 2ndly, I super dun like to change my phone as it takes quite a while for me to customized my phone to my daily usage. So usually, I try not to change my phone unless it’s really gone case le. Lastly, I always buy phones around the range of 100bucks after I did a re-contract and hubs have no qualms in forking out 600 bucks for a phone that he set his eyes on, so in this area, I cannot match him lor..

I tink it has been 4 or 5 years since we did use a identical model. This time round, as finally we are carrying the same phone again. I’ve set my eyes on this phone ever since I saw it at its launch. But it wasn’t till I accidentally cause the “death” of his hp then I get to change to this model.

It all started with while I was playing with his hp, and suddenly it juz died on me suddenly. Hubs was like, freaking out lo as he has juz brought the phone..So we sent it bak to the service centre and request for a 1 to 1 exchange since the phone is new and it juz die on us like tt..damn unstable..

I think we are juz suay la, plp use all okie. I touch only, the phone died.But base on my experience as a QA in electronics b4, I tink it’s nt my fault lo..hehehe…Anyway, hubs has already set his sight on another new phone. And so when he offered to give me the phone after it has been exchange, I gladly accept it.hehhe

But after he brought the new phone and play for it like for half a day, he decided that he dun like the user interface and would prefer the 1 I’m using. So he sold the new phone away and brought back the same model as mine. Tat’s how fast he change his phone if he decides he dun like the interface or whatsoever.

In any case, we are back to using identical phones..whahah, it’s been so long…but I wonder how long will it last b4 he change to another phone?Dunno but then let me juz show off our phone..whahah.

Our new phones-Samsung Jet

To buy or not to buy

Was killing time in Kinokuniya today as I am on half day leave when I came across this book titled: A Nation Cheated” written by 1 of our opposition member.

To be honest, I was tempted to buy this book, I always wanna know what the opposition have to say about our country, their different views on our government who I am so proud of although not agreeing with every of their policy.

But then, too bad, this particular opposition member, I totally cannot agree with his actions, loud, crude, rude, often acting like “ Ah Siao” is not gonna win any votes from the people. So much so that, when he came to my area to contest for a particular year, I keep telling my parents rem dun mark wrongly on the votes so as not to accidentally give the vote to his party.

So as I stand there looking at the summary of the book, I keep tinking if I buy the book, I would be contributing to his funds rite? So in the end, much as I wan to buy the book, I decided against it so that I will not be contributing to his funds. Whahah I aso dunno what I have against this guy…

If 1 day I come across a book written by the other 2 opposition members, I would buy without hesitations for I have quite high regards for them for being able to stand against our government and give a different view.

PUK pin

Was on the way home juz now and I was quite bored and took out my new Jet and try out the new new functions of the phone. Man, I’ve got the new phone for 1 wk le and is still not familiar with it’s functions…whahaha

Anyway, my itchy hands make me go activate my sim card pin and turns out that besides the sim card pin, there is still another pin call PUK-personal unlocking key. I didn’t know what it is lo, tot it was the phone’s pin number. With on 10 chances and had already used 1, I decided to check out the phone manual at home for the default phone pin b4 decidin wat to do.

The thing is, my phone is locked by the toopid pin screen and I cannot call hubs to ask for help lo. I raced to take out the manual book as soon as I reached hm but couldn’t find the pin number page, guess there is no pin lock for the phone.

So I changed hubs spare sim card into my phone to make sure that my phone is not lock and suddenly, smthing strike me and I called M1 customer service line. After listening thru the instructions then I realize I can check my PUK using the NIRC of the subscriber..but then the automated voice sucks lo, totally couldn’t make out what the hell the person was mumbling.

I then speak to the customer service officer who read out my PUK code..She then told me if I had enter the code wrongly for 10 times, my Sim card would be deactivated and there’s no way I can activate it, which means, all my contacts will be gone… Heng ar, I only tried like 3 times den gave up and call them le..Else, I tink, I will go bang the wall le..

Well,after that I immediately went to off the pin settings..no way I can rem the digits PUK by heart and I’m not going to risked losing my contacts when the SIM card kena locked!

Harry Potter

Skipped Jap class and went to watch Harry Potter with hubs yest..Hubs is complaining tat we have not been spending quality time together as our class schedules are clashing, thus ask me to give up on fri jap class and acc him...okie la, we realli neber spend much time together lo..sat is spend running errands tt we need to settle..sun is parents' visiting day lo..

Anyway, since hubs is nt working yest, he gt all the time in the world to go get e tix..he say a few cinemas all left the 1st 3 rows lo..which is a big no-no for me..thus we decided on JP..the show is 9pm lo, so we got all the time in the world to shop..hehe brought 2 t shirts n 1 jumper..hehe..
while we were walking in B1,suddenly the gates are shutting down lo...like going to trap us in B1 like tt..

Abit scare lo then we quickly went thru the gates and get to level 1..seems like fire alarm went off lo but then as we walked ard the mall to level 3, every 1 seems to be unaware of the alarm like or even better still, aware but couldnt care less..When hubs is queueing up to collect our pre order tix, i went to take a look hoping to find the source of alarm..but realli,every 1 is totally oblivious to the alram lo..this is a scary phenomenon lo..wat if is a real fire how??

Anyway,bak to the Harry Potter show, eh, the ending like abit hanging there lo, can see still will have continuation de..eh, dunno whether is I'm too tired or the show is abit boring, I fell aslp in between the show lo..woke up juz in time to watch the last part of the show..realli, if u asked me, i tink this show is nt worth to watch at the prime time slot lo...Okie. Gonna paste the crystals on my new watch le...will upload when it is done...hehhehe

baK to KlUaNG AFTeR 3 mONTHs

Heheh, i did a check on my passport, the last Malaysian immigration I have on my passport shows 11th Apr 2009. Which means to say, its' been exactly 3 mths since I last went back for a visit..wHAhhaha break record, I use to go bak once a month, if not max 2 mths. This by far, the longest break. But I have an explaination for this kk, I am super busy during wkend, heheh sat is reversed for dating with hubs while Sun is "Parent's visiting day" . Last time use to haf fri nitez de, but I'm down for jap class on fri till Aug..Hubs been complaining bout this recently....

After 2 wks of procastination, I finally went bak yest, hehe nearly wan to slp bak again when my alarm clock went off at 5.45 am, but manage to drag my ass to the toilet to wash up and wake up...We took the 7.40am express train yest which is scheduled to reach Kluang at 9.47am but then dunno due to wat ever crap reasons, we were struck for nearly an hr at the Singapore Woodlands Immigration where the doors were kept shut while we r left standing there like refugees waiting to board the train again....Toopid, no reason or watsoever were given...

Reached Kluang at 10.30am, but then my aunt has been waiting for 1 hr le, lucky she is those beri patience kind, cuz she is use to waiting for her kids to get off sch so heheh thanks alot xiao yi..Went for hubs n my fav curry noodles, a muz visit whenever we go bak den its down to town for abit for shopping den to my aunt's bookshop to catch up for the past 3 months events..

I met my cousin who is bak from Zhejiang, China for her summer holidays...She was telling me on the culture shock she have from her stay there and also her life there...And well, we were beri proud of her achievements. Despite her majoring Chinese in a chinese enviornment, she went on be to one of the top in her corhort and China is now offering her a scholarship to continue her studies for a Master's degree...Man, wat can I say, I realli take my hat off her and is so proud of her....

Xiao yi den brought us to buy durain, cuz its the season now and durains there r super cheap lo.. I neber buy durain in SG de, cuz I find them over priced and since I can get to eat in Kluang, no point spending the money here rite? heheh beri full from the durains and still need take dinner at my er yi's hse...Er yi is easily the best cook in my family with her learning all the recipes from my late grandma....

We were scheduled to take the 6.47pm train bak to SG but then the stupid train was super late can??arriving at onli 8.15pm lo...by then, hubs' face is as black as charcoal le...cuz we were sitting at the station feeding the mozzies there...Still, I find it safer to take the train bak to SG as we need not get down in JB...all the way straight to SG...the onli down side is the inability of KTM to stick to their train schedules and the lack of explaination for the delays...The sales counter staff were also not friendly to add on to the unhappiness...

I still went to do my laundry when we came bak last nitez as I need to prepare hubs' working clothes...hehe not beri dry but then it's juz nice for ironing as I need nt spray water..whahaha... gd idea, next time i juz take the semi dry clothes and iron will do le...the moisture inside is juz nice to make the clothes shine and I need not waste water to spray...whahahha...