Its Ching Ming again, you will noe, which the rain coming almost everyday..清明时节雨纷纷。。
This yr, we prayed to my ancestors 1st as dad says he wasnt free in the coming weeks and we cannot afford to drag too long..Its earlier den past yrs, but then I guess this is the praying wks and thus every where was crowded..
The past few yrs, as we went ard 2 wks after actual Ching Ming, thus it was quite empty oredi, to the extend of like no 1 else is praying besides us le..hehhe
The correct way of praying to our ancestors shd be the whole extended family meets and go pray their respect to the ancestors, but in our hse hold, we do it within our own family only, I sometimes suspect no 1 else is praying to my grand parents, eldest uncle and great grandma any more..
Like I say, we are also late in going to pray, but it seems like no 1 else did b4 us, as their tombs are not cleaned up..I mean, you cannot be praying onli and dun do some hse keeping rite?
Anyways, its not up to me to meddle in this kind of matter, my duty is go every yr to pay my respescts to my ancestors, hoping they will bless us with harmony and good health..Though sometimes, I will ponder, are they still ard to bless us or they had move on to reincarnted?
This kind of things are 信则灵，不信则不灵。。。But I really do believe my ancestors are giving us their blessings and keeping us in check...Do you believe???
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