I seriously could not remember my own wedding vows whahaha..cuz its in chinese and aso i was pretty nervous while taking the vow..I think i can remember, when i said the vows, every word, every sentence, I meant it...
Recently, I came to learn of at least 2 extra marital affairs happening around me..In both cases, the married partner is the female insteasd of male..reallli, wat is the world coming to?previously when an extra martial affair occurs, we will assume the husband to be the 1 committing the adultery..
It kinda came to a shock to me lo...maybe is becuz the women in question seems not to be the kind tat will betray their spouses but we can neber judge a book by the cover can we?
I aso dunno what went wrong in their marriage that push them to start another affair outside and aso in no position to judge them...
But deep down inside, i realli could nt accept these kind of relationship..much as i dun wan to judge them, much as i wan to see them as a normal person, i couldnt..No matter the person is male or female, they still betray their spouses, broke their vows they took during their wedding..
Perhaps, their spouses aso did the same thing to them, but 2 wrong doesnt make 1 rite rite?The fact that they are still married makes the whole thing seems immoral..
As I watched the whole episode developed further, i shudder to think about what kind of values plp have nowadays...Perhaps, gone were the days where plp take their vows seriously, perhaps, marriage now are as fragile, or perhaps "Till death do us part" doesnt exist any more..
Still, I would wish that my own marriage will be a lasting 1, for it is the most sacred vow that I've taken in my life and I wish for it to be true :)
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