Different points of view

Juz picked mummy and piggy bro up from the airport where they embarked on a 5days tour to Fujian, Mummy's granddad hometown..

Along the way, mummy was filling me in with the happenings on during the 5days, and as usual, I made some comments...

Mummy cannot understand why I always have to answer bak to those elders, and I dun understand why mummy want to stomach down all tat while she can stand up for herself..

I mean, why bother to complain when you wan to stomach down the rubbish things plp do, if you juz tolerate of the sake of tolerating, why make things so hard for urself? For the person doing the rubbish act is not sparing a tot for you in the 1st place...

I am not trying to be a difficult person, but in my view, in the process of getting together, you muz give n take not give in all the time and allow others to push you by thinking "oh nvm, I will tolerate because they are my bro/sis/relative/fwens/neighbours blah blah blah"

If the other party dun respect you, stand up for urself!!! Dun let plp push you to the edge and you still tolerate and after tat come bak n complains..Further more, let plp take advantage..I always have this tinking..I dun take advantage of you, you also dun dream of taking advantage of me..

Extreme, you may think..This is wat Xinyi once told me..But try to be in my shoes, growing up in my environment, you will find this way the most practical way to survive..

If we got thru the awful years solely by our own means, pls do not come n expect things in return now that we are living a better life..Where r u when we are suffering? Call me selfish, I would like to enjoy my fruits of labour n not shared with plp who dun contribute at all...

I noe mummy is soft hearted..too soft hearted in fact, sometimes gotta knock some sense into her..This is not the era of  我为人人，人人为我.In fact, this is the era of 人不为己，天诛地灭...

My dad in law once told me 防人之心，不可无，害人之心，不可有。。。I liked this advice alot alot..and to a certain extend, this is wat i keep reminding myself..

Since we have different views and she cannot accept my views, I juz have to shut up..But I juz wanna let you noe Mummy, no matter wat, you muz noe those advices I gave you may not sound nice to your ears, but it is of your good..As your daughter, I need to always put your best interest as priority..It is 1 thing you can accept the advices or not, but it is my duty to put it across to you..Maybe 1 day, you will noe wat I am trying to tell you...