Infidelity at its best

After years of working, I thought I have seen it all of those complicated relationships between colleagues. After all, my last company have like a like couple every 3months. So when it happen to my own department, I wasnt too shock. Just disgusted.

So I thought it would be the same when I realised what was happening this time in my current company. Though I or some of us have better faith in 1 half of the couple but I guess was just not enough.

But seriously, this time the infidelity was taken to a whole new level. While one wanted to be discreet,the other just want us to know. So, this creates a contradiction somewhere when they start to tell us things.

It can be the female giving us 1 version and the male giving us another. Initially it confused me as I dun understand why 2 of them cannot agreed on what they wanna say. But when I realised the truth, it drawn upon me that someone is trying to hide something while the other is not.

Since this happen to be part of my clique, I happen to be "honored" enough to see the whole sequence unfold in front of my eyes.

I used to not know what mummy is talking when she said how she picked up papa's changed attitude and also the lies he would tell during the initial years of his infidelity. Now I know. 

I realised when you are doing something immoral and you cannot convinced yourself of your own doings, you tend to show it. No longer you can talk freely without having to be afraid of others second guessing your every other sentence. Your answer would be short and you will try means and ways to change the topic so much so that you end up talking nonsense and pissing others off most of time since you try to shift the attention to others. But what you dunno is, we are all in this together to make you feel uncomfortable. So no matter how much you try to steer the topic again, it will come back somehow unless you don't talk. 

No longer you can answer our questions freely for you do not know when we are genuinely asking to know or asking to confirm what we know. You will have to think of whether you have given the answer to another person since we will cross check. This is the price you pay for not being forthcoming. But I dont think you can be too given this is no honor matter.

The most irritating of all is you try to test us on how much we know. This piss me off. Many a times asking questions that is obvious that you have an answer too but just want to test water on where are we on the issue. Nope I am not going to let you know how much we know or exchanged among ourselves since it would give you better idea on how to deal with us to hide your wrong doings. Face it if you dare to do.

Oh ya, and not forgetting that you love to act like you are not that close to your half. Often trying to play down your relationship or dragging others along with you. 

The other day, while having a gossip session with others. We cannot come to a conclusion on whether it would better if you just come clean with us or continue with your acting. Anyhow it will only do you damage. You should know it the day you decide to go ahead with this mistake.

The funny thing is, we have the women more angry with the guy and we put more responsibility in him. Out point is that he should have known better to deal with temptations rather than to give in. The guys on the other hand argued that the female shouldn't have taken the 1st step. No guys can resist temptations. It leads to a conclusion that men and women are from different planets and would always side their own counterparts and of course having very different views on issues. 

Actually this relationship opens my eyes to alot of things, it gives me an idea of how to detect changes in your better half. And of course it gives us a lot of topics to gossip. MUhahah who don't love a gossip any day?