Marriage is not only a union of 2 person deeply in love, its a beginning of a long long learning process...
Friday, 1 April 2011
Felt beri loved..
Saturday, 26 February 2011
March babies outing 2011
Went to Ma Maison in Bugis, ambience is quite good, food is not bad n most importantly company is awesome!!Dear n part time came late due to work n traffic jam n so partner n I started our dinner without them..we were too hungry to wait le..whahah
It was till 8pm den dear arrived n while waiting for her to finish her meal, we started chatting or in fact we oredi started to update our recent events with 1 n other while waiting...hehehe
Yiyi suddenly asked whether had we graduated for 10yrs, hmmm we calculated, no..its been 7yrs onli but then we had known each other for 10yrs as we were enrolled in the yr of 2001..Recalling the times we had in poly, it is always a joy to bring up a few of our personal jokes..N come to think of it, the 4 of us did not stay in the same class throughout our poly yrs, at some point or another, we changed class and managed to stick together in between classes...
I was neber a fan of gathering but smhow, I would not cringe at the idea of meeting up with them as i felt comfortable sharing my recent events with them n hearing them updating theirs..its like there's a bond between us that no matter how busy we are with our schedules, we will try to meet up once in a while juz to catch up...
Dear is still as classic as ever, blurting out comments tat shocked the 3 of us n keep us luffing the whole nite..the private time i had with partner b4 the 2 other came along allows me to complained to her about a few recent unhappiness/shit things...Yiyi is the cold face joker which we keep teasing her n the kan cheong spider who nearly broke the necklace she wanted to give me as she could not get it untangled..whahha
With dear dear n her pressies frm us
The necklace yiyi made for me, but nearly broke it yest...
Me with another gift frm Yiyi- n a funnie comment she made tat makes me luff..
We went on to take a few photos after the dinner as its a yearly practice..Its been a long time since the 4 of us went out..Its good to see u all after these months sisters..till our next gathering...Meantime, lets stick to the 2 person outings while waiting for every 1 to sort our their schedules whahahah....
Yiyi n I
March Babies 2011
My dearest partner n I
Group photo tat we asked sm random stranger to take for us...whahah
Inflations
I am already feeling the heat of the increased prices lo..not the "wants" but "needs" 2 examples that happen within these 2 days are...
Yest, while queuing up to buy the famous ang ku kueh at AV, I noticed that there is a notice telling us that frm 1st March onwards, all kuehs there will raised by 10cents lo..yesh, 10cents is not alot but then if u r like me, every time i buy, i will buy 10 at 1 go..n that, would cost an extra dollar...After 10 buys, it would be equivalent to 1 free box..so there u go...inflations at its best...
the other instance is, this morning while going for breakfast, i notice that my kopi-c will be charged 10cents more again frm 1st march onwards...n now a cup of kopi-o will be 90cents..i was shocked lo..it used to cost 60cents 2 yrs bak leh...n my pay had nt increased so significantly over the past 2yrs!!!
I was rooted to the ground for a while, while checking out the prices..n the coffee stall auntie told me tat every drink will go up by 10cents..damn it, i need to drink at every breakfast de lo..
I guess my plans to stay off shopping will need to be stretch 2 mths more..whahah to offset the extra monies i am paying for the rising food prices...Am wondering how long more i can control as I am beri tempted to go shopping, especially after last nite's outing with my sisters..it reminded me tat i had stopped going shopping for the past 1 mth...
Sunday, 20 February 2011
V-DAY 2011
Mr Love then brought 2 pints of ice cream of me as V-day gifts as he thinks flowers are too ex and useless...the 2 pints of ice can satisfy my craving at the same time shows that he noes me well enuff to noe wat i love to eat...
On v-day itself, we avoid going to restaurants but instead went to Airport instead...it was indeed
nt as crowded as other days..whahahha
Finally, yest, he brought me to eat our v-day meal...crabs!!!whahah We had intended to treat Still road crabs that Cindy recommends but couldnt find the coffeeshop..end up, Mr Love got angry and thus changed the location to Irwin's cze char to eat the salted egg crab which i love as much..he promised to bring me bak once i got the add correct..whahah
Okie, this is how we spend our V-day or rather this is how we celebrated V-day...how about urs??
Saturday, 12 February 2011
Shanghai 2011
Up high on Oriental Pearl TV Tower
Monday, 24 January 2011
1st impressions
Fast forward to 2 mths later, whahah while she was telling her kid bout me, they couldnt realli recall who is Auntie Sharon, till she reminded them that they met me on the bus before...
Know what her daughter answered her "oh,is tat auntie who threaten to tell all ur colleagues u scold scold scold ar?"
whahha i become the "scold scold scold" auntie but then nt i scold leh...whahahh
Man, i onli met them once onli lo, yet they remember me in this manner..hai..muz find some way to change their impressions of me..whhaahah
Saturday, 22 January 2011
Kluang 22.01.2011
Finally, since it is near to CNY, i manage to ask him squeeze out sometime to go bak with me so tat i am able to buy a few of my fav cookies and to pay Hwa Hwa a visit since we will nt be availble to go bak during CNY due to our overseas trip and aso the hse visiting committments in SG for his family side relatives..
Liang Liang says he aso wanna tag along, so Mr Love drove us there...I decided to take a new route today as I realise there is a short cut to the expressway the last time we returned to SG from there instead of the way we usually take...but then, as I am not quite sure how to go frm the new route, in the end, Mr Love missed the entrance to the expressway n we took a super long route bak..Okie, I swear the next time I will give the right directions..heheh...
Took a break at the usual coffeeshop in Simpang Rengam, a small town beside Kluang, n took our breakie..whahah I simply adore their chickie wings lo..neber fail to visit them if we were driving bak....
Its another half an hr later den we reached hm..took 3hr today which is beri long as the usual is 2hrs onli..whahah..Drank a cup of Er Yi's coffee which instantly perks me up and den rest 4 a while b4 going to eat Mr Love and Mine fav curry mee..whahah again, we neber failed to go there whenever we go bak..though all my aunties and uncles find that their standards dropped..
I 4got to take a photo of the noodles as i was busy savouring the delicious mee..heheh and Mr Love n me would eat 3bowls bwt the 2 of us everytime..whahah...
Then, we went to the book store where I chatted with her for hrs..its been a long time since we chat and if i am free i would smtimes call bak n chat with her onli..Of all the aunties, i am closest to her..
Then, we went to do some shopping at the biggest mall in Kluang..Kluang mall..whahaha found some realli cheap shirts and brought 2 for Liang Liang for CNY while hubs buy some working shirts there where it is going for 70ringgit for 2 onli..n they look pretty decent lo...
Brought abit of groceries bak to the bookstore for my aunt for her to munch while she stays there whole day..its a normal routine for me to top up the snacks whenever i go bak..
N, i got liang liang to teach me how to use my polariod camera after the diastrous effort to use it during our wedding anniversary trip to the flyer..Val gave me a crash course after tat but i haven got the chance to try it out...hehehe we gave my aunt a copy of our shot..my aunt always keep a updated copy of our photos de..heheh n we took an extra copy for ourselves where Mr Love keeps in his wallet..
We then went hm at 5.30pm to eat Er Yi's jia xiang cai..whahah she is the onli 1 who inherits ah ma's cooking skills lo..then proceed to take some photos for my 3rd uncle and cousin with my bro who they have not seen for quite a while...
Started our trip bak to SG at 6.30 n manage to clear the customs at 8.30..its was consider pretty fast as given it is a sat and we were expecting a massive jam as it is dinner time..luck is on our side it seems..whahah..till the next time when i have the time to go bak..
Wednesday, 12 January 2011
我想哭可是哭不出来。。。
I guess its 1 of my emotional phase acting up again..JV told me to let my fustrations all out by crying..she can feel tat the emotions are all bottled inside me..True enuff..as i was relating to her, i can feel my tears welling up, but i forced it back..i couldnt juz cry in front of her for nothing, i scare it will freak her out..whahaha
Yesh, i have tot of crying it out, but i juz couldnt get the tears flowing...i tink i need some time to calm down my emotions, to settle the problems..Like JV said, I went thru worse things before and survive, these should be peanuts to me, it shouldnt bring me down so easily..
加油!乐乐!!
Sunday, 9 January 2011
I have a confession to make
After 2 days of consideration, i decided to buy, against the nagging tots in my head that the films will be expensive..
Mum nearly flipped when she heard of this purchase..whahah but today,she told me she wanna use n take a photo of her n Yong Jun..Tok so much, still wan use my camera =_="
I wanna bring to Shanghai, so that can take pics with hubs against the beri 诗情画意 Su Zhuo and Hang Zhuo..whahah although we have our digital camera with us, but still the polaroid films have a different feeling to it..kekekke...
Well,what cannot be done has already been done..I will try to control my usage of the films whahah but i seriously doubt so...at least for the 1st few time...hehehehe
Till death do us part..
Recently, I came to learn of at least 2 extra marital affairs happening around me..In both cases, the married partner is the female insteasd of male..reallli, wat is the world coming to?previously when an extra martial affair occurs, we will assume the husband to be the 1 committing the adultery..
It kinda came to a shock to me lo...maybe is becuz the women in question seems not to be the kind tat will betray their spouses but we can neber judge a book by the cover can we?
I aso dunno what went wrong in their marriage that push them to start another affair outside and aso in no position to judge them...
But deep down inside, i realli could nt accept these kind of relationship..much as i dun wan to judge them, much as i wan to see them as a normal person, i couldnt..No matter the person is male or female, they still betray their spouses, broke their vows they took during their wedding..
Perhaps, their spouses aso did the same thing to them, but 2 wrong doesnt make 1 rite rite?The fact that they are still married makes the whole thing seems immoral..
As I watched the whole episode developed further, i shudder to think about what kind of values plp have nowadays...Perhaps, gone were the days where plp take their vows seriously, perhaps, marriage now are as fragile, or perhaps "Till death do us part" doesnt exist any more..
Still, I would wish that my own marriage will be a lasting 1, for it is the most sacred vow that I've taken in my life and I wish for it to be true :)
Wednesday, 5 January 2011
李式笑话- 爱的表现。。
Many many yrs bak, there is this tv commerical i forgot is for which product but the tag line is aso the same..whahah n Mr Love, has a great memory...he always without fail use the tagline to answer me whenever i ask this question...
Me: “老公,你爱我吗?”
Mr Love: “爱。”
Me: “有多爱?”
Mr Love: “很爱,很爱咯”
Me: “你要怎样证明你很爱很爱我?”
Mr Love: “等下请你吃虾咯”。。。
Does this sounds familar to anyone?whahaha
Sunday, 2 January 2011
Goodbye 2010,welcome 2011
Switched to Accounts job in 2009 and in 2010, i joined the present co as AP staff..its the 1st time i am doin AP as previously i am doin AR..it is a new experience for me and i am grateful for the things i learnt during this yr..had great colleagues here but the environment is not bad..
2010 is the yr of many 1st with Mr Love...
Its the 1st time he gave me REAL flowers as a gift..believe or nt..throughout our dating yrs, he neber give flowers to me except for the 1st yr where he self made 1 bouquet for me..whahah the onli other time is during our ROM where we NEED flowers for the bride to hold..whahah
this yr during V-DAY which is aso 1st day of CNY, he secretly orders a small bouquet for me..i was beri touched as i tot since we got married he would be more relax in the celebrations but instead he changed for the better and start paying more attention to the special dates...:)
2010 is aso the yr when i received my 1st rock..whahah Mr Love is suppose to buy when he proposed to me..but there was no proposal at all..wahahah n on top of it, he couldnt afford to buy it when we got married else there will be no wedding bands le..whahah..so for my 26th bday, he finally saved enuff to buy 1 for me..it was nt a big 1 but still i was beri touched that he rememebered his promise to buy 1 for me when he have the $$..
Its also the 1st yr we went to a theme park together..The Universal Studios Singapore..ohhh maybe its not 1st theme park..whahah cuz we went to the theme parks in HK back in 2008..whahah...okie, but its the 1st time in SG...took a day off on a monday and went there..it was small but still we njoyed ourselves..its like a mini getaway without goin overseas...
After many yrs of "Tok onli,no action" we finally decide to go to Taipei for a short trip!!I had always wanted to go there but since Mr Love had been there twice, we keep putting the idea off, but this yr, i finally got down to do the research and went there for a 4days 3 nite stay..I like Taipei, in fact more than HK...the shoppin is great, the food are even greater!!whaha and on top of it, we spoke the same language, Mandarin and Hokkien (Tai-yu)...but the downside is, we met with the 1st typhoon tat hits taiwan while we were there and it scares the shit out of us...
We are struck in cafe there while shops are closed and our flight is delayed..Mr Love fell sick and we basically have a lousy last day there..nebertheless, i am sure i will go back there in near future...
2010 is aso the yr that i experienced the pain of lossing a love 1...Mr Love's granny died the week after we came bak frm Taipei while on her way to her celebrations..It was painful even to tok about it in the initial days but we had come to terms in dealin with her death..I am sure she will wan us to live on well instead of dwelling on her death and wat we could have done...
Moving on, Mr Love went on a field trip with my family in Nov in Sentosa...its the 1st time after so many yrs that my family last went on an outing, we had an tired but enjoyable day and it certainly strengthen the bond within us..Lookin forward to more of such outings in future :)
Its also in this yr, I started to learn knitting in the hope of knitting some ting for him..Squeezed out sometime to go pick up the skills and is still struggling to finish my 1st product..whahah and hopefully, he can feel my love when he puts it on:)
I have also reached the age where my fwens are all starting to getting hitched..attended quite a few this yr but the most exciting 1 will be my bestie's weddin where i am 1 of the jie meis...whahah its the 1st time i tried being a jie mei for ppl's wedding...whahha i dunno i am still eligible or nt as i am a married woman..whahah but still heck care...had fun at her weddin n realli feel happie for her :)
I went to visit an Oil rig the 1st time...but it is non operation la..it is juz dockin in our waters b movin to the final destination but still, it is quite an eye opener nt to mentioned a scary experience for me..whahah but i survived and vow neber to go bak again..whahahha
Welcom to the Platinum...
Overall,it has been a pretty good yr for me and I hope 2011 will be even better..best wishes for every 1 in the upcoming yr..cheers!!!!
Sunday, 26 December 2010
Xmas gifts Part 2
Felt beri love, i mean whu wouldnt? He is some1 who dun spend this kind of money on himself..even for his new yr clothes, its juz 3 polo t-shirts n 2 bermudas..he didnt even get new jeans as he says he is nt wearing them often and the 2 he brought this yr are still new..nowadays he prefer to wear bemudas becuz of the hot weather.. neither did he buy new shoes, bags or watsoever..
Yet,he is willing to fork out money for me to buy the Kate spade bag which he tinks is over price juz becuz of the brand and without any questions ask..whahha..i was abit guilty la, cuz he dun even spend tis kind of money for himself and yet he is willing to spend on me juz becuz i like tat bag..
So in the end, i decided to forgo the bag...since i haf no shortage of bags and its juz another 1 of my "likes" instead of "needs"...muz learn to be a more thrifty person le..wgahhaha cannot keep spending at this rate...but seriously, i would need a new vacuum cleaner n a iron...I was actually gonna get it myself as Mr Love keeps saying tat they are still in good working conditions and he sees no point in replacing them..
But the vacuum cleaner, is like over 10yrs le lo...i brought over frm Mummy hse when we shifted to our hse cuz we are nt using as frequently as mummy and she brought a newer model..and i think recently it starts to smell when we were using it..so was thinkin of replacing it..
As for the iron, its kinda of peeling on the surface which i dunno y..and i am worried that it might transferred to the clothes when i am ironin and thus spoilling them..So i tink its high time tat i replace the iron instead of waiting for it to spoil 1 of my dresses..hehehe
So i told hubs tat i rather him to pay for that 2 items which i am tink its more neccesary than my Kate Spade bag...heheh He seems quite impressed with me and yesh, tonitez we are gonna shop for these 2 items..i will leave the ironin till i get my new iron...whahahah
How I spent my Boxing day
But alas, i lost to him in today's boxing match..By boxing match i mean that the struggle to get out of bed on wkends..its the same old story every wkend...we will try to kick each other out of the bed 1st to go wash up while the other 1 gets to slp/roll/lie snuggle for another 5-10 mins depending on how fast the person is..whhaaha
I lost to him totally today...no matter how i box him with my bloster, pull n twist his ears, trying hard to push him out of the bed, pulling his smelly pillow,blanket, anything that he used to cover himself away, he juz would not budge..in the end, i gave up, cuz i am out of breath le...so i self declare tat i've lost and got up to wash up 1st..
After breakfast, its spring cleaning time!!!Ermmm, think i brought too much clothes le..whahah n my wardrobe is threatening to give way any time, its time to throw out the old clothes n make way for the new 1..HOHOHO..
Plus, on the list today is to wipe clean all the super dusty shelves..been putting of for a few wks due to exams n i realli cannot stand the dust any more..put off any longer, i tink my skin allergies are coming bak...So it took me 2 hrs juz to wipe of the dust on each n every shelf in my room...and another 15min to change my bed sheet, finally its to vacuum and mop the floor...my back are breaking now and i still have 1 more task to do..that is to iron our weekly supply of clothes...wwahhhhhhhh i sound like an ah sum...whahahha....
Its gonna be a beri tiring day for me and i look forward to go bak to my knitting once i am done with all the hse work..plus Mr Love is gonna buy back the last polar bear for me frm LJS..hehehe... Happy Boxing day every 1..
Friday, 24 December 2010
I'm dreaming of a white Christmas...
We sat in front of the tv, eating the roasted peanuts brought in NTUC, drinking iced jolly shandy...whahaha it was pure bliss, to spend ur xmas eve with your love 1 doing nothing in ur own hse..
It would be more perfect is it's snowing outside and we are sitting beside a fire place watching tv along with the snacks, but this is SG, i noe, whaahha, so its juz day dreaming on my part kk..
Nevertheless, i wish to experience a white xmas once in my lifetime..heheh It would be so so romantic isnt it?
MEERY XMAS EVERY 1...
Wednesday, 22 December 2010
the season of giving and receiving...
I noe I should haf pick up his hint but my tots are all on my knitting..whahaha So in the end, he gave up, he told me straight tat becuz he wanna buy something for me, tat's y we are going shopping..whahah Tok about surprises, there is totally none...the reason tat he didnt go n pick 1 for me is he says he wans me to choose on my own...
He told me his budget, and brought me to the jewelleries shop for me to pick up something tat i like..Went to a few shops and finally decide that I like the designs in Soo Kee better...heheh I was tinking of getting a new pendant this yr as he brought me the rock for my bday earlier this yr...
And 1 caught my eye, it is a crown embedded inside a heart and it is a 3D design, which is different from the conventional 2D..2 of my favourite designs in 1 pendant...i was looking for a snowflake at 1st but there was none...heheh..
Mr Love den point out that the other design of 2 hearts interlocking is aso nt bad..I tried it on, its nice but abit pricely as there are more diamonds on the pendants as compared to my choosen 1...we went ard the shop and i saw tis ring with 2 stars joining together and ask the SA to let me try it on, turns out tat the size is juz rite..its pretty difficult to get the correct ring size for me in the shops as my fingers are bigger than most gals, most of the time, we have to wait for them to alter to my size..whahahh
So, its decision time,I am consider a fast shopper, i dun like to try 1001 design n den decide..i would juz try wat caught my eye and design between the few choosen 1..its down to these 3, n Mr Love told me that i could get a pendant n a ring, no need to choose juz 1...hehehe...So i needa make a choice betweeen the 2 pendants...
He actually prefer the interlocking hearts but the auntie in me acts up and i find it more pricey and in the end, I choose the crown within the heart..heheh its the tots that counts and i dun need to buy the more expensive 1..and on top of it, i like the crown in the heart pendant juz as much..Mr Love says it symbolises that I am a princess in his heart:)))))
Total damage to his wallet is half of his budgeted amount to me..whahah he says i am a easily contented woman, maybe, i am, but seriously I am realli contented and happie tat he did rememeber our special occassion and took the effort to get me something although his initial surprise plan falls apart...whahhah..
Merry Xmas n happie 2 yrs weddin anniversary to u lao gong...Love u *muackssss*
Tuesday, 21 December 2010
Knitting updates-1
it was my plan initially to do 2 scarf - blue n pink for both of us to wear during the trip but i guess time is not on my side and i gotta shelf this plan till the next trip..nevertheless i will give it my best shot to try knit 2 of this within these few wks...
A lighter note on this whole knitting business, when i finished knitting the 1st roll, i did not noe how to continue to the 2nd roll..heheh so i went bak to the shop to seek help from the instructors..you noe wat? it turns out that there is no magic, all u have to do is to tie a knot bwt the 2 ends of the 2 rolls..=_=''
the trip there onli lasted 5min...n it took me 1n half hrs for travelling to n fro...well done lele well done....
Sunday, 19 December 2010
出的了厅堂,入的了厨房。。
I would definitely love to be able to wipe up a decent meal for Mr Love n me..by decent meal, i mean with veg, meats n soup..So,i've searching for simple receipes online to let this noob to start her virigin cooking..heheh
But the thing is, Mr Love does not like Chinese cuisine..or rather he prefers western 1 and he "ordered"chicken chop..whahah..so its chicken chop that i will cook but nt the conventional kind..its abit of east meets west...whahah
I 1st season the chicken meats in abalone sauce that i got off shelf in NTUC..hehehe also brought brown gravy so that could heat up n pour over the chickie meat...i aso try to re create the pork chop meats that mummy use to cook for us season in light soy sauce n pepper..but i tink need eat some corn floor but i forgot bout it till when i started cooking..too late..whahah the meat turns out to be okie wif juz the seasonin..so didnt add in the sauce..
i aso fried some fries n brought chilli power to sprinkle on the fries..that is Mr Love's favourite i must say..spend quite a few hrs in the kitchen to prepare and cook..its all pretty easy 1 might say, but it sure isnt easy for me as i dun usually cook...
As i mentioned earlier in 1 of my posts, i will work slowly towards the goal of cookin up a proper meal..heehe it, takes time..next wkend, will try the chinese cuisine le..hopefully will turn out well...
Its kinda of surprisin how marriage can change 1 person is it? whahahha
Wednesday, 15 December 2010
Sore loser
The guy rebuked that they shdnt have grant him the extra credits to gamble and he would not chalked up such an amount and thus he thinks he shdnt repay..i was like WTF??u mean you think u can gamble and lost and expect not to repay cuz its the casino fault of granting you the extra credit? I mean wat is you win and the casino would not give you the prize on the pretext that they shdnt have granted u extra credits for you to gamble and thus allowing you to win more of their money??this is not logical rite?
Dun misunderstand, i am not supporting gambling but it juz irks me to see plp behave this way. Get a life man, if you wan gamble, you should be prepared to face the consequences.Dont be a sore loser and start repaying your debts to avoid further embrassement.
I think this is only the start of the bigger problem that is gonna hit our society..Gambling will shows a persons' worst side and true enuff in this case, it highlighted his..This guy is perhaps lucky as it was reported that he comes from a wealthy background. Think of those who comes from a not so well do backgorund, how on earth are they gonna repay this 300,000?
Government shd perhaps look into banning all citizens from our casinos..juz like South Korea..but then again, quite a big portion of the earnings comes from locals..I suppose there is no perfect solution to everyting is there?


