Marriage is not only a union of 2 person deeply in love, its a beginning of a long long learning process...
Saturday, 30 November 2013
Mind games
As I couldn't walk as well in heels, my pace was relatively slower than most people as I exit from JE station. Suddenly, I had the luxury to stroll along the walkway while every 1 zoomed past me. It makes me wonder why do I have to rush myself every morning while I am well ahead of time? Issit a habit or is it when I see people rushing there is an unexplainable pressure to rush along with them also?
I looked around and saw people all around are having expressionless, frustrated, anxious, sleepy faces. No sign of happiness anywhere. Can understand, after all who will be happy to wake up early to go work?
I was searching for someone that I can observed but all were too fast, they walked out of my sight in a matter of minutes, leaving me no time to observed them longer enough to paint a story in my mind.
Mr Love is always amused at my liking/ ability for observing others and making out story based on my imagination. Sometimes, my guess is correct but most of the times we are unable to confirm my speculations.
The more memorable 1 will be during our last trip to Taipei, we saw a girl at the reception and based on the conversation she had with the receptionist, I had the conclusion that she is a call girl though she is dressed quite decently. Mr Love was amused at my conclusion but later became impressed when we keep hearing loud love making sound for a few hours. Apparently, the guy's room is right below our room. Hurhur.
This is also one of the reason why I do not mind waiting for long period of time for Mr Love sometimes. Sure it takes quite a bit of patience to wait for someone. Before our handphone became "smart", I usually only have books and my mp3 player to keep me occupied. Now, I have my smart phone which have quite a collection of tv serials downloaded to accompany me during long wait.
Even so, I sometimes would take a break of reading or watching shows and start observing my surroundings especially people walking around. I like to see people's expressions, body language and try to paint a story in my mind.
A bit bo liao, but then it does makes waiting time shorten and more interesting. By observing people, it also makes me more wary of things. Though not always right, I am can safely say that usually I can somehow summarized the person's character at the 1st encounter by sizing them up. Of course, 日久见人心, but 1st impressions are some how not far.
1 of the days when I really wanna de-stress myself, I think I would take half a day off and park myself at a cafe in busy Orchard road. Buy a cup of cuppa, armed with my mp3 and a good book and sit there to observe the busy street of people walking past. It would be nice to be able to sit in the midst of a busy place and watch the world go by, guessing the story of others.
Thursday, 28 November 2013
Railway fun
Reminds me of the last trip to Taiwan and we took the train for a longer time this time. I like the idea of travelling on railway over coaches or car. Would love to have a chance to do longer journey by train though I am not sure whether how Mr Love will take it. Haha, he is not a keen long travelling time traveller and would feel bored after a while.
For the upcoming trip, I was planning to either travel to South Taiwan by train from Taipei or to Busan from Seoul. Both requires quite some time to travel and will allow me to have have a good view of the country while on the train.
Perhaps 1day, I will be able to plan a longer trip along either East or West coast of Taiwan, disembarking along the way to stay for a day or 2 before moving on to the next destination. Hehe though it might not be as exciting as a train trip in Europe, bust.t I reckon can start from somewhere I am familiar 1st.
Wednesday, 27 November 2013
Eat, Love, Play and be merry
Sunday, 24 November 2013
Korean Army Stew (부대찌개/Budae Jjigae)
Anyways, I showed him the picture I found off the cooking website and he gave me the green light to make this for dinner this weekend.
I didn't follow strictly on the recipe and adjust it according to our liking.
Ingredients
1 can of small hotdogs (6 pcs) - cut into half with slits in between
3 pcs of luncheon meat (can add more but this is all I left in the fridge from last week) cut into big pcs
I brought 1 packet of sliced beef from NTUC which is about 200g. Love more meat hehe
Half stalk of leek (This is for hubs only as I don't like it) cut into pcs
Half a carrot, thinly sliced
100g of flat over rice cake
2 slices of cheese (We prefer a more cheesy taste)
1 packet of ramyeon (Instant noodles)
Kimchi (Didn't put much either)
Beef (200g) was marinated with 2 tbsp of gochujang, 2 tbsp of sesame oil and pepper
Marinated beef slices |
2 tbsp of gochujang (Korean chilli paste)
1/2 tbsp gochugaru (hot chilli pepper powder)
1 tbsp of sesame oil
1/2 tbsp minced garlic
1 1/2 piece of chicken stock cubes
1000ml of water
Suppose to add in salt but I gave it a miss as I don't like to add salt to my cooking
Gochujan (Korean Chilli paste) |
Couldn't find the Korean ver and brought the Jap ver.Hehe |
Preparation
Bring the chicken stock to boil and add in the soup paste. I leave it to boil for 10min before turning it off.
The correct way is to arrange the ingredients in a shallow casserole and add in the soup base when you are ready to serve.
But since there are 2 of us only, and I wanna minimized washing, I threw everything into the pot of soup. Let it cook for 10min with all the ingredients and finally adding the 2 slices of cheese and ramyeon. Viola, it is ready to be served.
All cut up and ready |
Mr Love was surprisingly impressed with the thick broth created. I think it's the doing of the extra piece of cheese I threw in. The ingredients used were just nice for 2 pax and we polished off everything. My version is a bit different from the authentic Korean version but we find it as nice. After all the whole idea of home cooking is to cook to your preference isn't it?
End product-Budae Jjjigae |
Saturday, 23 November 2013
李式笑话- Army styled jacket
Was commenting about it to Mr Love that it seems to be in fashion now to have elbow patches on the jacket and I failed to understand the fashion statement of it.
He then replied me in a very smartass way:
Mr Love : "Oh, I know"
Me: "What?"
Mr Love: " This is for facilitating leopard crawling.." With that, he proceed to show me how to leopard crawl using the elbow..
So, the designer is a Singapore son?
Elbow patches for leopard crawl |
Signs of aging
New obsession-Melissa Flats |
Then again, I do slap on quite a bit of skin care like toner, essences, night n day cream n eye cream. Though these r chemicals too, but I do hope it help me to keep my skin as youthful as it can help.
There was once he couldn' t help but chide us that youngsters should go out and enjoy and not staying at home to rot. Haha. But then, I seriously prefer to stay at home during non-work days, else its like my house is just a sleeping place only if I spend a big bulk of my waking time outside.
My cosy corner at home |
7). Stars now are alot younger than you are
My colleague were telling me a joke the other day that she went for a K-pop star concert alone. And when the teenager gals starting yelling "Oppa" which mean big brother in Korean, she followed suit. Mind you, she is in her early 40s now. I told her that if the star noticed that she is calling him Oppa, he would have killed himself there and then. The guy is even younger than me. Hahah.
This brings me to another aging fact that I have to accept. There was a time where the stars seems to be much older than me and I can idolised them. But looking at the stars now, everyone seems so young, even younger than my brother. It makes me realised at our age, no 1 can debut as a rising star already.
The korean band (CNBLUE) I have been listening to recently have an average age of 24. 24 is like so far away in my memories, the year I got married, the year I got my house. The year I shifted out to start my new life. In a blink of eyes, 5 years had since passed. Man, is 岁月不饶人 the best way to describe my situation now? Haha.
See, all so young.. |
1 fine day when I can become a good mum, I think it would complete the transformation from a girl to woman. Till then, I think I am still somewhere in between. Hurhur..
Thursday, 21 November 2013
Miles and miles away
Curious Baby G |
Yummy fingers |
Showing off his new winter wear |
So sweet.. |
Showing me his new trick |
6 teeth already! |
Till then, I guess we need survive on our skype sessions, her occasion videos of god son and our trusty whatsapp to keep in contact.
My handsome god son |
Tuesday, 19 November 2013
Lucky..
How apt the lyrics are here:
"I'm lucky that I am in love with my best friend" - Yeah and I married him
"Lucky to have been where I have been"- Many a times, I count my blessing to be born here in Singapore, in this modern age that makes things easier for a female.
"Lucky to be coming home again" The other day, news was showing a girl who was born on the day Haiyan hits her home and her parents struggle to keep her alive by manually pumping air into her. She survived for 3 days only and pass on when help didnt come earlier. This news hits me hard. The child was already brought to the world but because of a natural disaster and prolonged delayed of help, the child passed on. Had the child came to a different part of the world, she might have lived and led a normal life. This is why I always have to remind myself despite so many complaints I have against our government, deep down I know I have to be grateful to be able to call Singapore home and can come back to home everyday.
"Lucky we will love in every way" Much had happen recently and I am glad we are still in love in every way though tired, stressed about everyday life.
I guess I must be too emotional after going for my follow up checkup today....
Now reading-Empress Dowager Cixi (慈禧太后)
Born and raised in modern Singapore where my family don't practice favoritism on boys over girls, I totally cannot comprehend how women during the olden times took it in their stride that they are of lower status than men.
Anyways saw this book in Popular the other day and was super tempted to buy but was too bulky. Then I walked past the shop last night and realised there's a 20% off store wide for English titles and immediately went to get this book. Hahah How auntie..
My latest read |
Having only read through 3 chapters of the book, it strikes me that she is actually smarter and more far sighted that those portrayed in the dramas. But then again, its dependent on how the writer wants to portray her.
It is an interesting book, having to read the descriptions of the Qing dynasty in english is somewhat different. I struggled to try to understand some of the description since am more familiar with the chinese descriptions or words. Nevertheless, I think I am gonna enjoy this book.
Life is good when you find 1 good book to read every now and then. Brings me peace and relax my mind.
Monday, 18 November 2013
Airfry Pandan chicken
Turns out to be not bad but I dun think I will be making it anytime soon cuz it is simply too troublesome to prepare.
I did not follow the recipe strictly as I didnt have all of the required marinating ingredients. Instead, I used what I had at home.
Brought 3 thighs and got the uncle to de-bone for me. Came home and further cut them up.
I brought 2 stalks of panda leaves and since I could not find bigger leaves, the chicken was cut into smaller pieces to be able to fit into the leaves.
I also cut away the bottom of the pandan leaves and soak it for a while to get rid of the soil in between the leaves. Then, I rinse and leave them to dry.
Marinating:
2 Tablespoons of Oyster sauce
1 Tablespoon of sesame oil
1 Tablespoon of dark soy sauce
1 Tablespoon of light soy sauce
Pepper(I put quite a lot since I like it spicy)
Mix the chicken pcs in and marinate at least for 2 hrs.
Pandan leaves |
After wrapping, I sprinkled 1 tablespoon of olive oil on top of the wrapped chicken. Then, air fry them at 200 deg for 8mins and flipped them to the other side to air fry for another 8mins.
You can smell the pandan leaves half way through the air frying which makes the whole kitchen smell of pandan. Great if you like the smell.
Verdict: We liked the marinating sauce though it is nothing special. Air frying the pandan leaves gives the chicken a pandan taste (duh!) which is surprisingly nice and fragrant.
But since I didnt do a good job in the wrapping, was quite dishearten by the dish, guess it will be a long while before I will try to make this again...
Da-tah!! End product |
施比受更有福 (It's a blessing to be giving than to be receiving)
Relief boxes |
Friday, 8 November 2013
Day and night
Was a bit frustrated with the super limited choice and couldnt help but to miss Taiwan's night market.
The vast difference between home and Taiwan is that we have a more vibrant morning market culture while Taiwan had the night version.
But then again, I didnt been to any morning market place in Taiwan to check out what they have to offer. Base on the areas I been to, mornings are considered slow in there.
While we have no problem finding places to dine during the day, its a different story once we enter nightfall here. Most market place will be closed by late afternoon, those who operates till 8pm will have limited food left. Often, you dun get much choices to choose from.
But if you have been to the night markets in Taiwan, you will be spoilt for choice till you dunno what you wanna eat.
On days we need grab dinner late here, we would be reminded of the good food we could get in Taiwan night market.
There is no good or bad in this case, it pretty much depends on what you are looking for during that particular time.
But, I am still pissed off by having to settle by fastfood.
Wednesday, 6 November 2013
Teardrops in the shower. .
I am considered a strong headed person who seldom shed tears. But today I am so frustrated that I couldnt help but burst into tears during shower so as not to alarm Mr Love.
Its like my efforts are being diminished, things tat I done right, it shd expected frm me. Things that I erred are being magnified 3000 times n kept in the heart.
It's disheartening to be in this situation, not that I am expecting any thing in return but not to even haf appreciation for wat I did was the triggering point.
Its like 有事钟无艳,没事夏迎春。 It seems as though as on days there isn't any problem for me to help out, I am creating problems instead.
It does hurt to hear this kind of comments, coming from someone dear. I tot I was being understood but realised I am the 1 misunderstanding the whole situation.
I tot I was appreciated but realised I was being the bad guy here.
So, why should I do so much in return for those unkind, ungrateful words? Why should I worry myself to nearly insanity while all people think is I am stirring shit?
I should seriously consider washing my hands off anything n everything so that I would not be embroiled in such situation. How many times had I tried but failed?
While I cried out of frustration, I am also crying over my naivety and my inability to shut things out and put things down.
Monday, 4 November 2013
Currently playing -Best of CNBLUE-Favs on my play list
From this show, I also learnt the places of interest in South Korea. Many a times, if I see somewhere interesting, I would google it for more information. Ditto for songs, tv series, stars..Most of the time my knowledge of Kpop or Kseries, K-stars come from here. Haha.
I recently came to know of this Band named CNBLUE. Its a bit late I think, given their popularity in Asia. Haha But then I am not interested in the guys of this band since they are all so young. What I am impressed is the music.
This band is different because 1st they dun have that many members like Super Junior or SNSD that I couldn't even tell the difference between each and every 1. All look so alike to me. I think I can only recognised Siwon from Super Junior simply because I seen him twice in Running man, Oh and the other fat fat 1 who appeared in 1 Xmas special of running man and makes me wonder how the earth he got into the boy band with his size (my bad)..
And so, with the help of Google and Youtube, I expanded my music collection thanks to this band. Here are the few songs currently looping in my player. Not that others are not nice but simply I prefer these few more.
1). Love revolution (English version)
There is a Korean version to it but I prefer the English version sung by the bassist. Truth to be told, the pronunciation was a bit out but I realized most of the English version songs I heard by Koreans have similar problems. So its not really a problem since it is not oral exam and I dun speak perfect English either.
I like the way that this song is performed by the bassist with a tinge of mischievous in it. Love the guitar solo during the start of the song.Watched the live version on youtube and it was much nicer that the CD version(duh). The tune is also catchy that makes you wanna move your shoulders along with the song.
Something I realized is the lyrics is somehow composed using Korean grammar. I did a search and it makes more sense if I translate the meaning to Chinese than it's English lyrics. But then its my best guess only. Nevertheless, I am more impressed by the tune.
2). Love
I must say I totally dun understand what they are singing and didn't bother find the translation. This is 1 of my favourite for 2 reasons. 1st 1 being the drummer's part. I think it makes up the spine of this song. Though the drums is present for most of their song, but it especially stands out in this song if u listen carefully enough.
The 2nd reason is due to the guy who had a more high pitched voice than the main vocalist. The main vocalist has a more coarse and manly voice but it is the 2nd vocalist who makes the song stands out with his softer and girly vocal. This 2nd vocalist is the guy who act as the son of 张东健 in A Gentleman's Dignity.
3).依然爱你
This is sung solely by the main vocalist I think, given the coarse voice. Not sure what he was singing but it sounds like some heartbreaking situation as I can only make out the words "Sarang ah" which is loosely translates to "Oh my love". But judging from the way of performance it is not about some sweet love song. Hehe.. Love the light parts of the song where the singing can be hear more clearly while the instruments take a back stage.
4). Intuition
Never a rock song lover but this song did stood out. Its a more heavy piece in my opinion. The main vocalist coarse voice match this song perfectly, giving it a very 旷野 feel. But too much of replay of this song will gives me a headache..Old le.. haha
5). Teardrops in the Rain
I actually like the Korean version that Park Shin Hye sang in the show Heartstrings, touches your heart. Stumbled across this English version sang by the 2nd vocalist and find it as nice. His vocals is really suitable for belting out ballads. I found 1 live version by the drummer but still prefer this.
These are currently the 5 songs looped in my player every morning on my way to work or evening during after work . On a bad day, I will choose to loop Love revolution only which has a magical effect of lifting my spirits.
Saturday, 2 November 2013
My favourite 15min meal-Airfry salmon
By the time he reach home, he usually will be too tired to go out for dinner but also cannot do without dinner as he will be starving by the trainings. I tried not cooking and we always ended up with Mcdonalds which is not the healthiest choice around.
So, I racked my brains for meals that is fast enuff to prepare within the time frame of his bathing time when he reached hm from the training. I find western cuisine to be most easy and thus sat is usually western menu.
This is 1 of my favourite, air fry salmon. Tasty, full of omega 3, healthier and of cuz much cheaper than eating out for the same food.
I will grab 2 pc from NTUC during brunch. Usually at 5 or 6 bucks each. I will try to choose thicker but short 1 as I wanna make slits in them to put in the butter.
After coming home, I would wash them and make some slits in between. The slits should not cut through the salmon, so essentially it is still in 1 pc though with 5 or 6 slits in it. The I will sprinkle som salt and rub over them, some will stay on the surface while some will fall into the slits.
Personally, I love buttery taste therefore, I would but the butter into pieces and try to stuff as much as I am able to into the slits. This is to enable the butter to melt into the flesh during air frying. I dun wan the butter taste on the surface only.
Preparation |
Alot of people will pan fry the salmon, but being the lazy me who try not to use the pan in order not to have much washing afterwards, I decided to use my super air fryer. The 1st time, I just placed the salmon on it and end up with skinless salmon. Not to mention that it broke into small portions when I tried to remove it.
So, I came up with an idea of placing it on a piece of foil and then air fry it at 180 deg for 8min. The natural oil inside salmon will be "forced" out during air frying. To make it looks like restaurant like serving, I would fry some fries along with it and sometimes throw in some side dish like cheesy mushrooms depending on what I brought that morning.
End product |
Guess I will be coooking this more often since its a healthier choice of us and most importantly Mr Love is fond of it :)
台湾春天之旅 2013- Dinner in Hsin Chu (新竹凤城之月)
The journey to 新竹 is ard 1 hr and she kept telling us it pretty near..We were so apologetic as she had drove from 新竹 the day before down to 台中 where she stayed at her parents' hse for a night before picking us up this morning. Even her parents' place is a good 45 min away from where we are staying. Faints...
Anyways, before dropping us at the HSR station, she suggested dinner as there is still abit of time left and we left the choice to her since she is the 地头蛇 hahaa..She brought us to this special restaurant named 凤城之月..The 之 is actually a Japanese word "no" since I am unable to type it out, I translated it to chinese. Hee..
Menu that looks like a textbook |
The restaurant is decorated to be like the olden days of Taiwan. Its like we are seated amidst an old street in the 60's of Taiwan having our dinner. They have quite an array of display of olden days toys, discs and also make shift barber hse, provision stalls street vendors, moive theater that let you have a glimpse of the olden Taiwan.
As we were rushing for time, I didnt have the time to go ard taking pictures of this special restaurant. Furthermore, it is quite rude to leave my host there alone while we venture to take photos. So, I settled for whatever is infront of me and took some photos. Hehe.
Chapter 1 |
Chapter 2 |
1). Pork stir fry with 竹笋
I am not a veggie lover, in fact can be consider a carnivore and thus for this dish, I totally didnt touch the bamboo shoots, only eating the meat. Though it is abit impolite to do this infront of our host, she totally can understand me since we had meals together prior to this. Hehe..
The pork served is super tender and when stir fryed together with bamboo shoots, cashew nuts, chilies and some other veggies I cannot pin point, gives it a very fragrant taste.
Stir fry pork with bamboo shoots |
I do not know the english name of this dish but I was told that this is a speciality in Taiwan. I had neber seen it in SG before. But since it looks similar to my favourite 豆苗, I decided to give it a try. This is stir fry with mushrooms and 枸杞子 and is quite tasty. The taste is similar of that to 豆苗 and thus I can accept it better though. We polish this off the plate in record time.
水莲根 |
This is similar to our SG version of Hainanese chicken. The version here is steamed too I believed. The meat is tender and juicy. This is not much of a surprise to us due to the similarity of it to the SG version. But if you really want a comparison, I can only say that the chicken they served here tastes fresher than ours. Haha
Hakka 白斩鸡 |
I nearly fainted when I saw this dish served. This is my nemesis. Not only I neber eatten bitter gourd before, any dishes that have this in them, I totally stay away. I mean who likes bitter taste? But then I was too paiseh to decline to try this by now given that I didnt touch the bamboo shoots earlier.
Furthermore, 姗姗姐 keep saying that Taiwanese bitter gourd is not bitter at all. I was not convince at least, if bitter gourd is not bitter that the name itself will be an irony isnt it?
Well, I am a big gal now, I cannot always pout my out of such situations and I decided to give it a chance since it is stir fry with salted egg(my favourite 配料)。
I took a small piece coated with alot of salted egg and tried. Surprisingly, there isnt any tinge of bitter taste to it. Zero, nil, zilch! 姗姗姐 was rite! The bitter gourd in Taiwan is not bitter at all...Yay... All I can taste is the salted egg taste..Furthermore, they have fry the bitter gourd till so soft that it is not crunchy..Another yay since I hated crunchy veggies. Haha.
She later told me that she dun understand why the bitter gourd she brought in SG is always so bitter as compared to the Taiwan version. Neither do I! haha I cannot give her an explaination too..
This is indeed a nice dish and I too helped to finish them all. The bitter gourd I eaten here is more than what I have took in the past 29 years of my life. Haha..
咸蛋苦瓜 |
Restaurant page
Friday, 1 November 2013
台湾春天之旅 2013- Random stuff - Donations of another kind
I actually didnt know of this when I 1st visit Taiwan in 2010 as I usually will not keep receipts. It is Mr Love who told me that it is also a lottery ticket and the draw date is every alternate month. But since we are always there for a short period of time, this is of no use to us.
But then, I did notice there will be an old lady standing infront of the 7-11 in Ximending during night fall, waiting to collect the receipts that any 1 is willing to give her. So, I always make it a point to keep the receipts from my purchases in the day and will pass all to her when we go and make our usual night snacks purchase from the 7-11. Not sure whether did she win anything but I didnt see her for my next 2 trips oredi, I hope she did though, as she look pretty poor.
Bento shop at Taipei main station |
Instead of throwing them away, why not do someting good? For all you noe, yours might be a winning ticket that can help others.
I am not able to remember the exact place of these bins but can recall 1 as I took a photo of it. Its located outside the bento shop in Taipei Main station near to the West 3 gate. This is where I deposit my 5days worth of receipts into. Hope it does help someone :)
The donation bin |