Events leading up to my hospitalization...

I lost my baby at 14wks 2days on Tuesday.. Events leading up to the lost, went past with a blur. It all started with the cramp on early sat morning at 6am, followed by the burst of my water bag (which I dun even noe) and heavy bleeding.. Immediately we rushed to KKH A&E as my private gyne opens at 9am..

At KKH, I was attended by a medical officer meaning to say junior doctor who dun even noe how to handle me..She looked at me blankly for 5s and proceeds to ask questions with long pauses in between as if she dunno or is thinking hard on wat to ask me.. And she keep flipping to the previous records to "copy" the answers to all the fields of the required report they had to fill in while diagnosing patients.

Later she used a microphone like equipment to try to listen to my bb's heartbeat, and had a hard time locating it. It was after much trying den she admitted tat at 13wks, its not realli possible to listen to the heart beat using that useless equipment. I was beri angry, I mean if u noe its pointless, why waste time to do this stupid listening while u can immediately get me to do an ultrasound??

Then she called her senior had asked her wat to do with me, I nearly fainted on the spot having met this noob. Her senior then advised her to ask me to wait for her return where I will be given an ultrasound scan. So I waited for nearly half an hr though they said 15min. All this while, when lying on the bed, hundreds of tots raced thru my mind. Will my bb be ok? Is there still heartbeat? Why did I bled so much suddenly? Is the cramp this morning a sign of miscarriage?

The senior doctor finally came bak to perfrom the scan on me, assuring me that bb's still alive and proceed to send me home with some hormone mediations and a jab. I asked her on whether why I am still facing this problem in my 2nd trimester and is there any thing I can do to prevent it, she juz told me no, and advise me to rest, not to carry heavy things. She did not even provide an mc for the next work wk.

We then went for breakie and after tat wanted to go hm and rest as per doc's instruction. But as I was walking to the carpark, I can feel a gush of blood flowing out, alarmed, I decided to go to the ladies to check..I nearly fainted inside, when I tried to urinate. Blood was flowing out freely and a BIG chunk of blood vessel came falling out. Imagine my shock when I see these. Here I am 3mths pregnant, with such heavy bleeding, yet the docs released me to go home and ask me to follow up with my gyne.

I called my gyne immediately and she told me to go to her clinic so that she can see my current situation.