Back from visitin grand father in law...

Ah gong has been admitted to hospital since monday and dad in law informed me on fri that he is allowed to be discharge today..so we were thinkin of fetchin him frm the hospital today..but this mornin, the hospital called n informed tat he is nt allowed to be discharge.but as they were speaking medical terms n perhaps in english, dad in law couldnt realli comprehen what they were saying..

Arranged with dad in law to go visit ah gong today,n if they are early, den i will go with them without hubs as he is still coaching today..but in the end, hubs' class ended early and we went on our own as bro in law is fetchin dad in law there...as jie n i were nt familar with the road in the East area, we went up takin a big detour n tok 35min to reach the hospital which is suppose to be 10min away...so much for the GPS which wun work in certain areas...

Know what Ah gong told us when he saw us? "y u all come so late, i tot no 1 is coming " n he got all misty eyes, look like he is goin to cry..i was shocked by his remarks kk..cuz previously, when we visit him, he keep askin us to go hm, but yet today, he was blamin us for being late..hehehe

he said tat at 6 or 7 pm,e ward was filled with visitors for others, but nt him..i tink he felt lonely n left out..aso, he was promised by the doc he can be discharged by today n yet he wasnt, n no 1 informed him..so he was abit afraid when no 1 visit him on the day of his suppose discharge...

we stayed there for an hr to chat with him during which he chased us to go off for 7times..whahah but each time, we are able to divert his attention to something else..aso, i tink he is still quite affected by ah ma's death..hopefully, he will be strong enuff to get thru these n emerge stronger... meantime, the onli ting we can do, is to provide him moral support...like i was telling hubs on our way hm, he is the onli surviving grand parent for us, the least we can do, is to do our best for his needs...hopefully, it will make him feel better...

well, i will be waitin for the hospital's call tmr as they promised to update me on his condition n the reason y he was nt discharge...if he is still nt discharge by tmr, i guess we will have to work out some time table n take turns to visit him so as nt to let him feel neglected..its gonna be a long wk i guess...